HEY GOD,GOT A MINUTE?
Calls You In For A Chat
by Noel Carroll
To doubt everything or to believe everything
are two equally convenient solutions; both dispense with the necessity of
reflection.--Poincare
All of this is true; I swear to the big guy it
is. Well, maybe not exactly true. I mean, a lot of it is from memory and thus
could stray just a tad from what was actually said--by God as well as by me.
And maybe some of the feelings more represent my take than God's, like I almost
lost it when I saw the outline of a frown pushing through the glow surrounding
his face (even now it scares me to think how close I might have come to
encouraging the old heat treatment).
Anyway, what kicked it off was I fell asleep
one night a little down about life in general and weary of all the conflicting
thoughts that kept bouncing around in my head, thoughts about religion, why
we're here and what all this stuff means, I mean, really means. You know, one
of those times when you're flooded with doubts you gotta admit are there but
don't feel right about bringing up (you don't even want to form the questions
in your mind for fear you might actually ask them and in doing so tempt some
kind of lightning bolt your way).
But the doubts are there just the same, and if
you try to pretend they're not, it just makes you itchy inside, like somebody's
calling for boarding on the last train to heaven and you don't even know what
kind of ticket to buy.
Now don't get me wrong; it isn't like I doubt
the whole shebang. Heck, I'm not that far gone. I just doubt everything I've
ever been told by everyone I've ever known. I mean, there are a lot of people
out there screaming their heads off about what's what in this world and the
next, and most of them have no doubt whatsoever about what they're saying, even
when what they're saying goes against what other guys (who also have no doubt
whatsoever) are saying.
Until this thing with the big guy
happened--which I'm gonna tell you about in a minute--I had just about given
up. I had no one to turn to, no one to ask, no one who wouldn't hit me with the
same old platitudes and half-answers. "Just have faith, Harold,"
they'd say, which to them meant have faith in what they were saying, not in
what anybody else was saying.
Anyway, I just turned sixty, my back hurts
from all the exercises I did to strengthen my legs, and my hair, which had
already turned a horrible shade of dirty gray, is now falling out. Plus my feet
hurt, my eyes see a little less each year, and I'm getting shorter. This all
combines to tell me that I need to make sense out of what I am and where I'm
going and that I'd better do it soon before whoever's keeping score decides the
game is over. "Time's up, Harold. And oh so sorry, you should have
followed religion 5,642. Step closer to the furnace, please."
Anyway, the problem I'm trying to tell you
about started for me at an early age. I was even more confused about religion
then than I am now, and when I tried talking to my friends about it (I remember
asking, "If God can do no wrong but can do anything he wants to do then
why can't he do wrong? I mean, if he really, really wanted to?") all I got
was laughter and ridicule. They didn't much like the questions (and couldn't
answer them anyway) so they responded in the only way they knew: they attacked
the one doing the questioning. Enough episodes of this and I knew to bury my
curiosity in favor of going along with the crowd. I liked the guys who were
telling me the religious facts of life, so backing off was no big deal.
But one day I moved then came in touch with a
new set of friends who believed something different but who sounded just as
sure about what they were saying as the guys I left behind. When that happened
a third time, I got to wondering what gives. I mean, they were all good guys,
but what they said just couldn't be, not when you viewed it all together. Some
said black, some said white, some said something in-between--I was young, but
not so young that I couldn't see something wrong with that. When for the second
time in my life I got on their case about it, this time to question how so many
different religious opinions could be right at the same time, I got to see my
first funny look: a look that said, How could I not understand? How could I
question the unquestionable? (I figured out that the "unquestionable"
meant what they believed, not what my earlier friends believed.)
That's when everybody began picking on me. A
few guys got angry, but most of them just stared at me as if I had brain cells
leaking out of my ears. It was funny to watch the progression; their eyes would
widen and their smiles would become fixed and unsure as if they'd just cut one
loose and were afraid the teacher had heard. Then, and it's interesting how many
of them did this, they'd take a step backward to avoid an accidental hit from a
lightning bolt aimed at me.
But my playmates are not the guys I complained
to God about. I still like those guys, all of them. Besides, we were kids; we
didn't know any better; we'd all been brainwashed by our parents. The gut aches
I feel now come from grown-ups, the guys who are doing the brainwashing. The
guys who stab their fingers at the sky, reveal enough of their eyes to make
little kids fear the dark, wave whatever book they think proves their point,
and cry out their message to the world, a message that demonstrates love of
their own ideas, scorn for anyone who can't see the wisdom of those ideas, and
reasons why you should give them money.
What really bothers me is there are so many of
them and so few of me.
Anyway, getting back to the night I'm trying
to tell you about, I woke up in my dream (that's exactly what it was; I was
dreaming then there I was, as awake as I'd ever been in my life) and found
myself standing alone at the edge of a rolling puff of cloud watching rambling
rivers and winding roads run a neat pattern through multicolored patches of
farmland far below. The only company I had was a gentle breeze, which, because
there were no trees or stuff like that to catch the wind and make a noise, I
felt more than I heard. As I stood there watching, I began to feel a need to
make the most of this before the magic of the moment changed, before the
pushing and shoving of a celestial rush-hour began.
But before I had time to decide how to do
that, along walks the big guy himself, God. Because of the light radiating from
him, I couldn't see much, but I knew right away it was him. (Or her; I never
did get the answer to that one.) Well, I gotta tell you, this surprised me
some. It isn't often that this kind of thing happens, not to me it doesn't (to
the guys running around in robes collecting money, it supposedly happens all
the time).
But anyway, I seized on this great idea, the
idea that this meeting was preordained; I mean, it must have been, right? The
big guy must have guided us together just so I could hit him with my questions.
I felt pretty important at that moment, even holy. And I figured who am I to
risk angering God by passing up an ordainment, or whatever you're supposed to
call it. So I grabbed the moment and got the ball rolling. As you'll soon see,
once it started rolling it wasn't so easy to stop.
"Hey, God, got a minute?"
ONE:
This
"in God's image" thing: did you
evolve from
apes like we did?
"What is it, Harold?"
"Hey, this is great; you talking to me, I
mean."
"Yes, Harold, I understand. But I am a
bit busy..."
"Oh yeah, God; didn't mean to hold you up
and all. I just got a few things on my mind. You know, things I can't make
gel."
"Gel?"
"An expression where I come from, God.
But you see, that's part of what's bothering me. I thought you would know
that."
"You think the way you speak should rank
high in matters that occupy my mind, Harold?"
"Well, that's what we're told all the
time. That you know everything, I mean, even the things that aren't worth
knowing."
"I know you, Harold."
"Ha! Good one, God. I'll remember that--I
mean, if you let me remember it."
"You have questions, Harold?"
"Yeah, a few thing I been thinking
about."
"What kind of things?"
"Well, like ... now, you're not gonna
take offense, are you, God?"
"That depends."
"Yeah, well I don't mean this the wrong
way, you understand. I'm just ... well, sorta confused. I don't want to get my
buns scorched for stepping outta line."
"Get with it, Harold."
"Yeah, no sweat; I've been standing here
writing it all down. Hold on a second, God."
"Harold."
"Yeah, God?"
"You said 'a minute.' How many sheets of
papers do you have there?"
"Now see, there you go again. You're
supposed to know things like that."
(sigh) "Pick one, Harold, and let's get
on with it."
"Yeah, okay. It's just that I have
trouble believing all I'm told and I need a little help sorting it out--oh
yeah, move on; right, God. Eh, how about this one: Now as I understand it, you
made us in your own image, right?"
"What is your point?"
"Well, what image are we talking about?
Homosexuals have..."
"That's 'Homo Sapiens,' Harold."
"Homo Sapiens; got it, God. Well
Homo-what-you-said have changed a hell ... eh, a heck of a lot, even in the
last million years--we don't look anything like we did back then. And go all
the way back to the time of the dinosaurs and you see us looking like mice. Eh,
you're not telling us you're a mouse are you, God."
"I beg your pardon."
"Hey, no way I see you that way; I just
said that to prove a point. But you know, with all that glow, I can't tell what
you do look like--you couldn't turn down the power a little could you,
God?"
"Maybe you haven't really tried to see
me, Harold."
"That's exactly what I'm getting at, God.
I mean, that's the point of this whole talk. I wanna try harder; I wanna know
how to see you, how you want to be seen."
"Is it so important that I have a
specific image?"
"Well, no, but that's what we're taught
all the time, that we look like you, I mean. All I want to know is whether it's
true. Or whether you're evolving like we are and, if so, what you have in mind
as the end game--eh, you got pictures, maybe?"
"Maybe I want to leave that up to you, to
permit you to see me as you wish."
"'Maybe' don't exactly pay the rent,
God."
"You want to run that by me again,
Harold?!"
"Hey, no offense; I really want to
understand. There are a bunch of guys out there saying all kinds of
contradictory things. And these guys, they don't say 'maybe;' they say 'this is
how it is and there isn't any question about it.'"
"But you do question them."
"Yeah, but I question them, God, not you.
I mean, they come up with way-out stuff, stuff they've got to have made up.
Like this 'in your image' thing. I mean, mankind has gone all the way from
one-celled creatures to what we are now--there's a lot of in-between there,
God. Heck, we've changed a lot even since your guy Jesus came on board. We're
taller now by a lot of inches. Eh, how tall are you, God?"
"Here's another 'maybe' for you, Harold:
Maybe I 'evolve' your image because I don't like you looking so much like
me--you people are not something one can easily take pride in, you know!"
"Present company excepted, right, God?
Eh, just a little human joke there. But why do you let these people tell us
something like that if it isn't true? I mean, they say they got it straight
from the horse's mouth--no offense. They say they're just passing on what you
want us to know?"
"Your minute's up, Harold."
"Oh, yeah. Well can I come back and see
you later, God? I got a lot more of these questions."
"I can hardly wait."
"Hey, great! I was afraid you'd be
offended."
"Goodnight, Harold!"
"Eh, right; see you later, God--Oh, one
quickie, if I can?"
"'Quickie,' Harold?"
"Yeah, that means like..."
"Do me a favor, Harold."
"Yeah, God?"
"Don't explain."
"Oh, yeah, sure. I guess I really don't
have to. I mean, you would know that like you know everything, right?"
"Your 'quickie,' Harold?"
"Yeah, Eh, is 'God' your first name or
your family name?"
(sigh)
TWO:
If you're
guiding us and we do bad,
whose fault
is it?
I woke up at that point, but let me tell you,
I thought about that little get-together all through the day. I felt really
good about it; that holy feeling came over me again; I even walked a little
lighter. Not exactly on tiptoe but lighter, like I was already on my way to the
big K-Mart in the sky. (That thought triggered another question which I quickly
wrote down on my list of stuff to ask God. It's always good to know where
things are in advance of a major relocation. I mean, if I got to heaven really
close to Christmas and had to waste time figuring out where K-Mart was, I
wouldn't have time to shop.)
I figured questions like that wouldn't hit him
the wrong way--he seemed a little testy about that image thing. They're easy to
answer and a step below heaven-shaking. Another good one is whether he still
rests once every seven days, and if so, whether he'd like us to worship him
when he's back on the job. I mean, there's nothing worse than being interrupted
a billion times on your day off.
I couldn't wait until bedtime. My friends
must've thought I was wacko, the way I treated them that day, like I had a big
secret they wouldn't guess in a million years--not unrealistic timing
considering where I was and who I was talking to. When they pushed me for an explanation,
I took on my best holy look, one that spoke of the notch I had risen above
them, then started humming. Not a hymn or anything like that; just an old
Beetles' tune. At one time, I thought of hitting them up for money, you know,
like those guys in the tents do when they talk to God. I didn't, of course. I
loath those guys and don't want to do to people what they do to people,
especially people I like. Not only taking their money, but taking advantage of
their human weaknesses: preying on their superstitions, their fear of the
unknown, their fear of dying. If I did that, I wouldn't be able to sleep
nights. And then I wouldn't get to chat with God.
By the time I climbed into bed I was too
excited to sleep. I tossed and turned for hours before finally giving up and
going out to the kitchenette for a drink, hoping it would calm me down--I live
in a two-bedroom apartment when I'm not on a cloud with God. Funny thing,
though: all the while I was drinking this late-night cocktail, I couldn't help
thinking of it as holy water. I mean, look at what it was leading me to.
Holy water or not, it didn't help; I still
tossed and turned. It got to me, the amount of night I was wasting, I
mean--suppose God got tired of waiting. I fought harder, at one time pressing my
eyelids down with such force that it gave me a headache.
Then it was the headache that kept me awake.
It must've been three in the morning before I
finally calmed down enough to let go, but before that I went though a period of
thinking that God was keeping me awake on purpose, this so he'd have more time
to think up answers to my questions. I understood that; it's what I would do.
Anyway, I finally got there, there being the
same cloud as before, overlooking the same scene. Except now it was raining down
on everybody.
"Hi, God, It's me, Harold."
"How could you possible think I don't
know that, Harold?"
"Yeah, gotcha, God. And that leads to
another question of mine, this one about people being a pain in the ... eh,
neck ... at times, some more than others."
"Funny, I was thinking along the same
lines."
"Ha! Good one, God. You'd be great at
parties."
(sigh) "Your question, Harold?"
"Eh, yeah. Eh, this one has to do with
why we're the way we are. I mean, not so good at times. I mean, if you're in
the driver's seat, God, why don't you change us into something more to your
liking? For that matter, more to the liking of each other?"
"Don't you think I try?"
"Now that I don't understand. What's
'try' got to do with anything if you can wave a magic wand and make it
happen?"
"There is no magic to any of this,
Harold. Not with respect to what you are, and more importantly, not with
respect to what you are not."
"Well, how do you do it then?"
"The details would be beyond you."
"Yeah, but you did do it; make us, I
mean. Right? And some of us are made better than others. Some can't be other
than a pain no matter how hard they try."
"Have you taken into consideration that I
might be testing them? And you, Harold?"
"Well pardon my asking, God, but why
would you do that unless you goofed in the production phase? I mean, if you
made us, and if you can do no wrong, then by definition, we don't have any bugs
in us that you didn't put there in the first place. So what's with the test?
And why punish us if we fail? That's like making a car with three tires then
getting mad when it drives on an angle."
"I work in mysterious ways, Harold."
"Yeah, I can believe that, God, but
still, I gotta ask."
"(sigh) You don't think mankind should
have rules to go by?"
"I got no problem with rules, but if you
made us weak, then I figure you expect us to be weak. If we act like we don't
like the weaknesses you gave us, it makes us look kinda unfriendly, know what I
mean? Like we disapprove of your handiwork."
"You're not always easy to understand,
Harold."
"Just one of my weaknesses, God. How am I
doing with it?"
"Not funny, Harold!"
"Yeah, sorry, God. But you don't know
what they're saying about you--well, maybe you do, but I gotta believe you
don't like it."
"Saying about me?"
"Yeah. Like we should be afraid of you,
afraid you're gonna burn our butts if we act like what we are. They say out of
one side of their mouth that you guide us through each day, that anything we do
is really you pulling the strings, then when we do something they don't like,
they change over to us being in control and you about to zap us in the butt for
doing it. What happened to the guide-us-through-each-day bit?"
"I help you with the good. Do you think
it reasonable that I should also help you with the bad?"
"Well as I see it, if you're in there
guiding us, how can we think of anything bad? And how can we get started doing
something bad if you're in there guiding us?"
"Did you ever think of entering the law,
Harold?"
"Well, if you're guiding me, God, maybe I
should ask you that question."
"I can't see it making matters
worse."
"Hey, I'll go with whatever you decide.
But getting back to the us-being-guided thing, what sense does my whole life
make if all I am is a puppet on a string--yeah, I know, except when I'm being
bad, which I don't know how I can be with you pulling the strings?"
"Are you saying being alive doesn't make
sense?"
"Hey, it beats the alternative--at least
I think it does; I don't have much experience with that particular alternative.
I mean, I don't remember what I was before I was born. But that's not what I'm
asking, God. From where I sit, I'm in a movie house watching your grand plan
for me unfold. And all the while I'm thinking that if you wind up not liking
how that plan turns out, I stand a good chance of getting torched--this is what
they'd have us believe, God."
"Exactly who is this 'they,'
Harold?"
"The guys I've been wanting to tell you
about, the guys with loud voices, funny eyes and fingers that keep pointing up,
regardless of what side of the world they happen to be on when they get fired
up."
"The ones who speak of me, you
mean?"
"Hey, I'm not talking about all of them,
God. Just a heck of a lot of them. Well, maybe most of them. It's just that
they don't think through what they say or do. I mean, they don't even feel an
obligation to. They make up stuff then toss it into the crowd as if, having
said it, it's gotta be true."
"If you are referring to a time when they
gather in worship, it is likely that the one doing the speaking feels he or she
is being guided by me."
"Well, that's what I mean about thinking
it through, God. He thinks he's being 'guided' into saying 'black' at about the
same time a guy in a place down the street thinks he's being 'guided' into
saying 'white.' I mean, I got enough smarts to see a problem with that, why
don't they?"
"They don't have your genius,
Harold."
"Yeah, I see your point, God. I mean, you
only had so many brains to pass out, right?"
(sigh) "Go on, Harold. You were telling
me about 'making up stuff,' I believe."
"Eh, yeah. Anyway, their audience just sits
there nodding and smiling, as if there couldn't be any doubt about the truth of
what they just heard. I tell you, God, this gets me to thinking that there's
nobody out there who has any idea what the real skinny is. They come on like
they do, but it's obvious by what they say, and by what other guys say about
what they say, that they don't."
"You have needs as they have needs,
Harold. When you feel strongly inside--as you do now--rather than keep those
feelings to yourself, you endeavor to pass them on, to encourage others to
believe what is very real and very valid to you--this does not in any way refer
to the validity of those feelings, only to the imperative nature of them. There
are certain people who feel a 'need' to instruct, Harold. Does it hurt so much
to have others practice this need on you?"
"Hey, I still got things I don't know,
God. But the kind of guys I'm talking about don't instruct as much as they
bully. They tell you what to believe, how to believe it, and what's going to
come down on you if you don't. I once had a guy hand me a list and say, 'This
is what we believe. You want to join us, you gotta believe it too.' Now how
does a guy tell his mind what to believe? I mean, a mind looks over all the
facts and arguments then tells you what it believes, right?"
"They are encouraging you to open your
mind to their words, Harold."
"Yeah okay, but it doesn't sound to me
like they got much room in those words for debate, and that means that they
intend the opening-of-the-mind thing to be one-sided. You should hear these
guys, God."
"I should, Harold?"
"Oh, yeah, I guess you do hear them. You
hear everything, right? But doesn't it pis ... eh, get you angry some of the
stuff they come up with?"
"Are you saying they are being
dishonest?"
"Well, no, I guess not; not 'dishonest,'
I mean. More that they're being ... irresponsible. They gotta know people are
afraid to question them, afraid the sky's going to fall in on them if they do.
When somebody does question them, the first word out of their mouth is
'blasphemy.' Then they tell that somebody he's got a problem 'opening his
mind.'"
"Unlike you."
"Hey, like I say, God, I still got things
I don't know. But I don't see these guys having a open mind when the kind of
answers I get from them are 'all I know is' and 'that's good enough for me!' If
a guy admits 'all I know is,' I don't think he should come on like he knows
everything. And saying 'that's good enough for me' tells me he's not interested
in hearing anything but the echo of his own voice."
"But you do want to be heard."
"Well, I always got an urge to, but I
don't give in to it all that often. I mean, if I argue, it just gets a lot of
people looking at me funny like. Easier to just let it go."
"I understand."
"And it isn't just guys in tents; it's
anybody with a loud voice and the idea that you've called on him to
"spread the good word," even if that "good word"
contradicts the next guy's "good word." I gotta ask you, God, doesn't
that ever ... eh, get you mad? I mean, it's like these guys think you have a
split personality, that you hand out contradictory callings?"
"You think I'm confused, Harold?"
"Hey, no way. I'm talking about them,
God, not you. But when these things happen, I get to feeling like I'm the only
one out there who's not either hypnotized or blinded by fear, the only one able
to see the 'light' that my neighbor thinks I don't see when I disagree with his
version of what that 'light' is--maybe that didn't make as much sense as it did
in my head before I let it out, but you know what I mean."
"I appreciate the clarification,
Harold."
"Yeah, well I figured you might need it,
what with me working in mysterious ways at times."
(sigh)
"Anyway, these guys can also be found in
basilicas, bethels, churches, mosques, synagogues, tabernacles, temples, you
name it--I mean if you want to. It doesn't matter what you call it; what
matters is what they say and how they say it; what they claim and how willing
they are to think through those claims."
"I see, Harold. But why complain to me?
How much you believe of what 'they' say is up to you."
"That's just it, God, I want to believe
in you, but I have trouble figuring out how all the noise down there figures
into this. Like there's this guy from the orient who tells me you want him to
have a fleet of Rolls Royces--he's way up there on my 'they' list, God."
"There will always be the gullible,
Harold."
"Yeah, and the guys who take advantage of
them--pardon me for saying it, God, but they could use a little straightening
out. There are more of these guys popping up every day."
"You hint at indifference, Harold. I see
other than that. Look for signs."
"Yeah, I know, thunder and lightning and
birds carrying snakes, stuff like that. But it seems to me a better sign would
be one written in a common language on a giant billboard."
"Are you questioning my methods?"
"Hey, no way, God! It's more like
pleading. I mean, I see things down there as pretty screwed up. We could use a
little help."
"And if I clarify everything for you
today, what about tomorrow?"
"I don't follow you, God."
"The minds of humans are fickle, Harold.
What you believe today, you are inclined to modify even ten minutes from now.
If I enlighten ten of you, within twenty-four hours these ten will have begun
to modify their thinking. Even as they stood together during the lecture, they
will express varying interpretations of what they heard me say. Given enough
time, they could well form ten entirely new religions."
"All the more reason why I can't put
stock in what they tell me, God. Besides, can't you keep reminding them? A
daily newsletter, something like that? Heck, I'll even help you print it."
"Too tedious, Harold."
"Tedious?"
"Yes, like this conversation."
"Oh yeah. I get your drift, God. It's
just I feel this great need to know."
"Why do you 'need' to know, Harold?"
"Well, I guess you would know that better
than me, God. After all, you made me."
(sigh)
"I guess I'm tired of holding it inside
me, God. Tired of being told that to pose too tough a question is blasphemy.
Tired of people bullying me with their smug looks and knowing smiles when in
truth they don't know any more than I do. Tired of the comfort these people
take in the large numbers of people around them who believe as they do, like
these numbers make them more right than me."
(sigh) "Okay, Harold, go on."
"You know that 'seek and ye shall find'
stuff, God. Well think of this as me 'seeking.'"
"I said go on, Harold."
"Oh yeah. But, eh, I got a little request
first."
"A little request?"
"Yeah, about the guys who cry 'blasphemy'
every time I question their way of thinking. I thought maybe you might zap
their tails a little. You know, throw the fear of you into them, keep them from
coming down so hard on the rest of us."
"Condemnation reflects one's own
inadequacies more than it advertises another's, Harold. You should pity them
for that. But in strict answer to your question, I offer what I said earlier:
Ten minutes after being ... zapped ... they would be right back at it. Better
is for you to assume more responsibility for protecting yourselves. I've given
you the means; it is up to you to employ them."
"Some of us have more 'means' than
others, God."
"It happens, Harold."
Now at that point, I began to wonder which
kind I was. Did I have more "means" or less "means"? I
don't like the loudmouths, but I don't feel strong enough to take them on
directly. I mean, all kinds of people would come down on me if I even hinted
that I thought these guys, as popular as some of them are, smelled like they
walked through a chicken coop in their bare feet. So I guess I have enough
means to protect myself, but not enough to win out against the harm these guys
do.
"Yeah, I hear you, God. And I know I
gotta go along with whatever you say ..."
"What exactly do you mean by that,
Harold?"
"Well, you know; the butt-burning
thing."
"Is that the only way you can believe,
Harold? By fearing punishment?"
I though about that some. I have fears like
the next guy, but I don't know that it makes me more religious. Or less. And I
don't know how much of it comes from being too close to the funny-eyes guys
when they let loose--in speech, I mean. For years they've been telling us we
gotta fear God, that he has some kind of holocaust going and that we're going
to be tortured in a horrible way if we don't fall into line. Even if that was
true, which I don't think it is, why is it so holy to give in to fear? If on
Earth we keep from doing something just because we're afraid, we're branded as
cowards--I don't think anybody is going to say I'm 'good' or 'holy' just
because he sees me trembling in fear. No, when fear strikes, we try to get hold
of ourselves, even when, as in wartime, it might cost us our lives.
The same thing could be applied to the
morality thing. What kind of sense does it make to say a guy is moral when the
only reason he keeps from doing something bad is because he's afraid of being
punished? I'd say he's more chicken than moral. Moral is a guy who keeps from
doing something bad simply because he thinks it's wrong.
Are we supposed to go through all eternity
afraid to speak our minds? Me, I don't think so. I mean, no two people think
alike, and assuming we aren't given a brand new personality after death, there
are going to be a whole bunch of contrary opinions flying around heaven, all of
them at the same time. (If we are given a new personality, then what was the
sense of having the old one?) It doesn't change anything if you keep those contrary
opinions to yourself. If God looks into your heart, he's going to see them and
know.
I think the funny-eyes guys don't give God
enough credit. They infer that he feels threatened by diversity of opinion,
even way-out opinion. Me, I figure he isn't worried, that if it comes to a
verbal boxing match, he knows he'll come out ahead.
I sure wish I could've gotten an answer to the
"guided-through-life" thing. When am I a puppet and when am I not a
puppet? Am I worrying about stuff I can't do anything about believing I have
decisions to make when in truth they've already been made for me, that
everything is preordained?
I don't think anything's preordained. I mean,
if "preordained" means God knows everything in advance, seems to me
he would do something to prevent the bad from happening. Like a cop who knows a
crime is going down; if he does nothing to block it, we'd get all over his
case.
But I had already come close to being
"tedious" on that subject, so I decided to move on to something else,
something sure to be close to God's heart.
"Where exactly is heaven, God?"
"Where do you imagine it to be,
Harold?"
"Well, in the past, people used to think
of heaven as up in the air. I mean, there are a lot of paintings, some of them
showing angels with wings and others showing you pushing clouds out of the way
so you can point a finger down at us. But now we know that the higher you go,
the less air you get, and that you can go on forever in any one direction
without this changing. That tells me that heaven's got to be sandwiched between
Earth and the start of space. I mean, otherwise, why give angels wings?"--Hey,
why are you laughing, God?"
"You take things too literally,
Harold."
"But that's what I mean, God. We got
people out there preaching that we have to take what is said in the Bible
literally."
"I am afraid, Harold, that this is
something else you must work out by yourself. I say again, what you believe is
up to you."
"But I don't see 'believing' having
anything to do with truth. Aren't we supposed to go for truth?"
"Truth is something humans only give lip
service too. More important to them is what they wish to believe."
"But you'll scorch our butts if we
'believe' the wrong thing."
"Will I?"
"That's what they say."
"Then to you, that is what will happen.
However, I caution you to open the entirety of your mind when regarding the
arguments of others. What 'they' say may have little to do with what I expect
of you."
"They claim they're only repeating what
you say to them."
"They talk to themselves and attribute it
to me."
"Don't you talk to people, God? I mean,
you're talking to me now."
"Am I?"
It was at this point that I woke up. And did
that ever leave me with an empty feeling! I knew I had been awake all that
time--in my dream, I mean--but the doubts began to pour in big-time. The day
that followed was nothing like the one that preceded it, the one where I felt
some kind of holy. Now I felt like an empty-headed worm. And I couldn't put my
finger on why.
THREE:
When you
said, "Let there be light,"
who were
you talking to?
The next night I decided to be even more
careful about what I said--no telling what God might do if I really pissed him
off. I figured he was getting tired of hearing about all the bad from Earth and
could use a little cheering up, so I went through my list of questions and
picked out a few that weren't so heavy.
"Hi, God, I'm back."
"Joy to me!"
"Yeah, that's cool, God. Good to see you
in a better mood. You know, last night might've been a bad day for both of us.
Maybe I said things that didn't come out the way I thought about them when they
were still floating around in my mind. You follow me?"
"Incredibly, I think I do."
"Well, I didn't mean to be hard-nosed or
anything, I just...."
"Harold, are you apologizing?"
"Eh, yeah, I guess I am, God."
"Well, don't. I see genuine confusion in
your mind, and however obnoxious you are in expressing it, there is nothing
wrong with your reaching for answers. Indeed, you have a me-given need to do
so."
"Yeah, well thanks a heap, God. That's
mighty nice of you. And you know, I do have a little more of that 'confusion'
to work out."
"I am overwhelmed with surprise."
"Ha! A God joke, eh, God?"
"Proceed with the questions,
Harold."
"Right on, God. Eh, here's an easy one.
Why does everyone look up when they're talking to you--I mean, you see it all
the time? If a guy is on the wrong side of the Earth when he's doing this,
isn't he looking away?"
"I'm everywhere, Harold."
"Well then, why look up?"
"Next question, Harold."
"Oh. Yeah, sure, God. But do you ever
think about things like that?"
"Next question, Harold.
"Eh, well I read where you said 'there
shall be no other gods before me.' What I wonder is, why would you say that if
there are no other gods?"
"Figure of speech, Harold, an expression.
Don't think about it too much."
"Yeah, but if there's only one god and
you're it, no need to be jealous, you know?"
"Good point, Harold. Next question,
please."
"Oh, yeah, sure. Eh, I guess I'm doing
that obnoxious thing again, huh, God?"
"You got it, Harold--Oh good me; I'm
beginning to sound like you!"
"Yeah, God. I like it. Guess I'm a good
influence.
(sigh) "Your question, please."
"You got it, God (just joking). Here, I
got another one all ready to go. Eh, in the Bible, it talks about the four
corners of the Earth. Was that because they didn't know the world was round?"
"Another expression. Don't let it keep
you up nights."
"Oh, I like being up nights, at least
like this. I mean, you and me shooting questions back and forth, challenging
one another."
(sigh)
"But you got lots of Christians with
pictures on their walls of Jesus looking up; didn't he know the world was
round?"
"Harold?"
"Yeah, well the reason I ask those kinds
of questions is to demonstrate another thing about the guys with the funny
eyes. If you look back in history you see them being sure as heck about
something one day then sure as heck about something completely different the
next: The world is flat; next day it's round. The sun revolves around the
Earth; next day it's the other way around. And they never seem to learn; they
go right on fitting new discoveries to what they want to believe. And their
sure as heck when they're finished that their interpretation is the absolute
truth."
"Humans are reluctant to revise long-held
opinions, Harold."
"But messing with the facts is just
fooling yourself, God--not you; I mean them. Why go right on like you were
never wrong in the first place. And get pissed ... eh, mad ... if people start
asking for proof the next time you come up with a new 'truth'? You ask and you
get something like, 'What else can it be?' (Isn't that particular answer a
contradiction, God. I mean, they're saying they don't know, therefore they
know.)
"They're trying, Harold."
"Yeah, well so am I, God. But I'm looking
for real truth not support for preconceived ideas. You know what I mean?"
"Yes I do, Harold. But you are suggesting
that others do not harbor a similar quest for truth."
"Hey, I'm the first to give the other guy
his due. I mean, if I see any reason to, that is. But what am to think when the
rules change and not a heck of a lot of people see a problem in that?"
"Fear, Harold, the fear timid people have
when faced with the prospect of questioning those they perceive as stronger
than they. You share that tendency. I see it in you when you catch yourself
before saying something you think might offend me."
"Yeah, well I'm not dumb, God."
"Dumb is relative, Harold."
"Huh?"
"Please go on. I sense you are about to
tell me more of what you believe to be inconsistencies."
"Hey, how did you know that? Oh, yeah;
you're God. Well, you take the case of what happened during the 18th century.
God's ... eh, I mean your ... tendency to anger was hushed up a bit, especially
in the Bibles people gave to children. Up to that point everybody said you were
'demanding and vengeful.' After that point you were declared to be a 'benign
educator of humanity.' Now, how can both be true? What happens to yesterday's
truth that I'm not supposed to question when a new truth that I'm not supposed to
question is put into play? You see my problem, God?"
"More than you know, Harold."
"And what about the guy who's supposed to
be infallible? One of your guys?"
"No human being is infallible,
Harold."
"Well, he says he is."
"Saying so does not make it so."
"To me it doesn't, but to a lot of other
people it does. Don't get me wrong; it's a great technique. I wouldn't mind if
people believed that of me. Harold, the infallible; self proclaimed!"
"Would you 'lord' it over them,
Harold?"
"Hey, not me. Not more than a little
anyway. It's just a neat thought, that's all. Anyway this same infallible guy
used to insist that the sun went around the Earth--he was ready to zap Galileo
for saying something different."
"He was human, Harold. As I said, humans
make mistakes."
"Yeah, okay, but it's humans who are
telling me what's right and what's wrong and what to do. How do I know what
they're saying now isn't just another 'mistake'?"
"The really passionate believers work
with a crutch, Harold. The light of their religion makes them see what they
believe--I got that from Thomas Aquinas by the way."
"Eh..."
"Give credit where credit is due, Harold.
The point is, you must judge the passion of the person on whom you rely for any
kind of information. Too much enthusiasm could block some or all of the value
of what he or she might have said."
"Yeah, I buy what you're saying, God, but
it sure makes me uncomfortable at times. These 'really passionate believers'
can do harm to guys who don't play along."
"It is a discomfort you can do something
about. There are people, Harold, who simultaneously hold great stature and
questionable motives. What they believe they also imagine to be true and, as
such, they become less and less able to handle what might threaten beliefs that
they have no desire nor inclination to alter. The onus is on you to not be
afraid to judge each of them on his or her merits, to decide for yourself how
much of them you wish to endure."
"Not easy to do, God. Everybody's afraid
to say something nasty about a guy who claims he's talking to you
directly."
"Then they must suffer their lack of
courage. As I have said, the passion of one's beliefs has little to do with
whether those beliefs hold any validity. One who professes to have the 'true'
knowledge has an obligation to fully and fairly consider opposing opinion. If
he fails to do so, if he fails to challenge himself with all the doubts and
counter-arguments that man can devise, then the beliefs he holds are less than
commendable. They are little more than recordings in a stagnant mind, to be
replayed upon Pavlov's call."
He let me see his eyes then, and what I saw
was determination and just a hint of disgust. What I didn't know, however, was
whether this was for me or for mankind in general. Since I was a lot closer to
the lightning bolts, I hoped it was the latter. I even angled my head to see if
the puff of cloud I was sitting on was grounded.
I also hoped he wasn't thinking I was picking
on just one of his boys, the guy who thinks of himself as infallible, I mean.
Just in case, I let him in on some of the other things I'd heard.
"You know, God, there are guys out there
who believe it turns you on to see them murder people who don't think like they
do. They say you take them into heaven faster when they do this."
"And you take them seriously?"
"Hey, you should see some of these guys,
God. They get so wrapped up in one way of looking at things they go crazy if
they don't get to die during an attack."
"Do you really imagine that I would be
impressed by someone who tries to please me by hurting others, either
physically or mentally? Do you imagine, with all I am capable of doing, that I
need such people to accomplish what I wish to accomplish?"
"Hey, to me a crazy is a crazy; it doesn't
matter what else is floating around in his mind or what side he's on. I'm just
telling you what kind of opinion is floating around down there, what kind of
people I gotta put up with. But these same guys, even though they try to get to
paradise in a hurry, want to take revenge against whoever helped put them
there--that's what I mean about not thinking things through."
"When you follow someone or something
blindly, all you can truthfully say about yourself is that you are blind."
"Hey, I like that, God. That mean you
agree with me?"
"No, Harold, it does not. It means only
that I agree with your premise that human beings should think through what they
believe. Especially if they are prone to act on those beliefs."
"Yeah, but what if they don't, God, think
things through before they act, I mean? Some guys can only get to feeling good
about themselves if they get others to go along with their ideas. They don't
get satisfaction, they want to lash out at somebody."
"Then deal with them."
"Eh, we could use a little help in that,
God. It's a humungus mess we're talking about here."
"The help you seek can be found among
yourselves. I am not here to play human, Harold, as you are not here to play
me. As humans you have created problems and as humans you must solve
them."
"We can't call on you, God?"
"You can call on me all you want, Harold,
but you must rely on yourselves."
"I gotta admit, God, I don't understand
that."
"Someday you will, Harold. Someday you
will."
I was a little surprised at that. It sounded
like he was telling me we weren't exactly way up there on his list of
priorities, that we should go our way as he intended to go his. But I held back
asking him that, figuring there was something in his words he wanted me to
think about. I mean, if I push everybody else to think things through, the
least I can do is follow my own advice.
It was, however, a natural lead-in to my next
set of questions.
"You know, God, one really big religion
down on Earth says the gods are an invention of man, that you're sort of an
imaginary playmate for adults."
"What do you think?"
"No way! Hey, I'm here with you
now."
"You are asleep, Harold. How do you know
you are not dreaming?"
"Well ... You know, God, these are the
kind of questions I'm supposed to be asking you."
"Oh but you are asking them,
Harold."
The air was getting thicker, and it was
beginning to make me sweat. I looked around to see if God had a little stand-by
fire going, you know, like a pilot light. There was nothing other than the
cloud, nothing I could see at least, but just the thought of it was enough to
make me want to play it safe. You know, go with the light stuff.
"When you waved your magic wand and said,
'Let there be light,' who were you talking to?"
"I beg your pardon?"
"Hey, no problem, God. A little too much
to eat maybe?"
"I mean your question. Where did that
come from?"
"Oh. Well, that was the start of
everything, right?"
"Go on."
"Well who was there before everything
started?"
"You would not understand, Harold."
"That's exactly it, God, I don't. I mean,
if you were ordering someone to create light, were you sitting there in the
dark? Did you need the light to see; did you even have eyes--I mean, if there
wasn't any light, why would you need eyes? And who are the guys who did the job
for you? Electricians maybe? Do they have the magic, or did you give them just
enough to get the job done?"
"Harold?"
"And how did you know what light was if
you didn't already have it?"
"Harold?"
"Eh, more 'expressions,' God?"
(sigh) "There are some questions that
have no meaningful answers, Harold. Time, for example. By definition, it could
never have begun, thus there is no answer to give whoever would ask that
question."
"Gotcha. Boggles the mind, doesn't it,
God?"
(sigh)
"But that brings up an interesting point
We have to assume you're always right and we're always wrong--sounds a little
like my ex-wife, by the way. But how do you yourself know that you're right? I
mean, who told you this; who set you up in this God thing, and what was here
before that?"
"I was always here."
"But how do you know that unless you
asked somebody? I mean, you can't look back to the beginning of your memory
because there is no beginning--sorta like time, and you just said there's no
beginning to that. All you can do is keep searching further and further back,
and not finding a beginning, you got the problem of not knowing why you're
here. Or who made you. And the other part of that as well: not knowing for sure
that whatever you're doing is right--I mean, who would have told you that? If
there was a somebody, where did this guy come from, and how do you know he was
telling the truth? It's sorta like that infallible thing: saying so doesn't
make it so."
"You want to rephrase that, Harold?"
"Hey, no offense, God. I'm not always
good at how I put things. What I mean is, even you can't know the beginning if
there never was a beginning, and not knowing the beginning, you can't know how
you got here or why. Yeah, I know, I'm playing lawyer again, but what this
tells me is I don't know why I'm here either."
"You are here because of me."
"How about why you're here?"
"I'm here because I want to be."
"But how did you know you wanted to be
here before you were here?"
"I was always here. I revert back to my
statement that some questions have no meaningful answer."
"Well, okay, but aren't they still
legitimate questions? Do we have to just accept things even when, in our minds,
they don't fit so good? If I did that, just accepted it all, I mean, what I
feel inside would still be there. I would still wonder why you were here, and I
would still think that there would never have been a start where you could have
made a conscious decision to be here, and if that didn't happen, you couldn't
know why you wanted to be here and what the sense of it is and why being here
is better than not being here."
"I am so pleased you decided to share all
this with me, Harold."
"Hey, no problem, God, I just think a
lot. Like where is 'here' for instance? In the scheme of things, I mean. How
can you know the extent of your own boundaries if, by definition, you don't
have any boundaries? How can you check out everything, keep a Godly eye on your
realm so to speak, if there's no such thing as everywhere?"
As you see, I had trouble keeping the
conversation light. Plus, I think I pissed my buddy, God, off a bit in pushing
it as hard as I did. Still, I sure wish I had the answer to that--don't know
what I'd do with it, but I'd sure like to have it. And while I was asking him
about how he knew he wanted to exist, I was thinking the same thing about
ourselves. How did we know we wanted life before we had it? What were we before
we had life? Whatever it was, was it so bad that we wanted to switch to what we
have now?
Anyway, I tried one last time before calling
it a night. And this time I figured a way to finger somebody else.
"Do you have supervisors, God?"
"What?"
"I'm talking about the chaos on Earth. Do
you have business managers or something like that, people who run things down
there for you."
"And if I did?"
"Bingo! Hey you know, that was just a
shot in the dark. Didn't know I'd hit the old nail on the old head. Well, if
you want a little suggestion, God, I think you should check them out some,
check out some of the things they got going. I mean, you'd think they don't
even like working with one another. One guy brings rain to an area already
drowning in flood, and another brings more sunshine to a place that desperately
needs rain. Then you get....."
"Maybe 'they' are testing you."
"Naw, that wouldn't make sense. I mean
they gotta know our threshold of pain; why would they need to 'test' it? Why
would they even want to? It's like we have a pet and we stick pins in it to
'test' it--what kinda sense would that make? We wouldn't get a better pet out
of it, only an angrier one. No, I think if your supervisors wanted to test,
they'd go about it in a more humane way. A written exam, something like
that."
"You don't believe in the value of pain,
Harold?"
"Only when it helps at the same time,
like when your hand is touching a hot stove and the pain makes you pull it
back."
"How about suffering?"
"Seeing people suffer just makes me sad,
God. And I don't see suffering adding character to anybody. I see it making
them either depressed or bitter. The guys with the funny eyes and pointing
fingers say this makes them a better candidate for heaven, but I think that's
just sour grapes, a way to make people who are having a lousy life think their
misery is helping them score points for the next one."
"Even if that were true, do you think
this is so bad? Would you rather such people had nothing to seize on?"
"I'd rather they not suffer in the first
place, God. Certainly not as a way to get them ready for heaven."
"How about to punish them?"
"Honestly, God, I just don't see that as
the reason for misery. I mean, you get tiny little kids suffering big
time--what did they do to deserve that? And old people and disappointed people
and hurt people; what did they do? Why are so many people so wrong that they
need so much misery dumped on them so often? Like my pet example, it's like us
being really mean to a dog because it's acting too much like a dog. I'm not
saying you can't whack the damn mutt alongside the head from time to time, but
I don't see torturing him or setting fire to him, nothing like that. But that's
exactly what they say you do. I mean, you, God, not your supervisors."
"They or you?"
"Hey, not me, God. I'm here to be set
straight; that's what I'm trying to get across. I'm talking about the people
who go around saying they talk to you, the people I've been complaining about,
the loud guys with the funny eyes. They tell us a lot of mean and nasty stuff
about what kind of a guy you are, how you're going to burn our butts for all of
eternity if we step out of line. But you see, I don't believe a word of it. I
mean, why would you do that?"
"But you don't mind if I 'whack you
alongside the head' now and then?"
"Ha! Good one, God. Guess I had that
coming."
"Harold?"
"Yes, God?"
"You have more questions?"
"Well, I feel a little stupid asking some
of this, God."
"No one is stupid who seeks knowledge,
Harold. Stupid is he who is content with the knowledge he has."
"Hey, no way that's me, God. Harold the
malcontent, they call me."
(sigh)
"Well anyway--and I'm asking, not
criticizing, you understand--but who designed our backs, one of your
supervisors?"
"Yours doesn't function properly?"
"Mine and half of humanity's, God. We
just weren't meant to stand on two feet."
"I can change that, Harold!"
"Oh would you, God? Man, I'm tired of my
back aching all the time. So's everybody else I talk to."
(sigh) Go on to your next question, please.
"Yeah, well I'm kinda curious about why
you would create something so much weaker than you?"
"Simple. I'm a jealous god. I don't like
the idea of competition."
"Yeah, I hear you. But doesn't that--now
don't get mad, God, I'm only talking--doesn't that suggest ... pride? And if
pride is a sin for us, why is it so good for you?"
"You want to try that again,
Harold?"
"Hey, don't get me wrong; I like pride. I
got some myself, and for good reason. And I sorta like the idea of being a big
boss some day. Maybe I never will be one, but I like to know that the
possibility is there. With you, I guess it's gotta be different. No matter how
hard we try we're not gonna get promoted all the way to God, right?"
"What do you think?"
"Yeah, I know, the job's taken."
"And you think that's unfair."
(shrug) "Well, it is in us to strive to
be the best--I mean you put that thought there, right? And here in the good old
USA, we don't believe in kings and queens and stuff like that, people who get
where they are just by being born."
"Your point, Harold?"
"Well we got this 'strive-to-be-best'
stuff in us but we can't do anything about it once we get in bed with you--no
offense, God, just a way of speaking. We gotta be content with being inferior
forever, sorta like a permanent underclass."
"Harold ..."
"Yeah, I know. I already said I'm not
very good at how I put things sometimes. But it's not my fault if I'm confused
about this stuff, God. And I really am trying to clear it all up. I wouldn't be
here right now if I wasn't."
"Don't tempt me, Harold."
"Ha! Another good one, God; you got a way
with words. But I still got questions that cry out for answers."
"Some other time, Harold."
"One more?"
(sigh) "One more."
"Well the resurrection. That's where you
took Jesus..."
"I know how the story goes, Harold."
Yeah, right. But something about that always
confused me. Why would you take his body up to heaven. I mean, you know, God,
after a while a body starts to..."
"This is what has been keeping you up
nights, Harold?"
"Well, I know you can't let him hang on to
it. I mean, you let one guy keep his body, everybody else will want to do the
same."
"Goodnight, Harold."
"Eh, goodnight, God."
Well, it ended better than it began, although
I wasn't sure how close I came to being part of the 'suffering' I was complaining
about. Sometimes I think I should just keep my doubts to myself.
But then, the big guy would know about them
anyway, right? I mean, if he knows my heart, he knows my doubts, even if I
don't always have the courage to admit them to myself; consciously, I mean.
I would have liked to've gotten something
going on that suffering thing. That one really bothers me. It just makes no
sense to me that a civilized being could suggest pain and suffering as a good
way to make a person deserving. I mean, deserving of anything. Why am I more
deserving if my finger hurts than if it doesn't? Why would a benevolent being
want my finger to hurt, any more than I want to hurt the fingers of those
inferior to me--and there are some, believe it or not? I feel sorry for those
guys that are hurting, but I don't think making up stories about how it helps
punch their ticket for the great beyond does anything other than stretch
credibility. And create big-time doubters.
People are desperate to believe, too desperate
at times, leastwise that's what I think. This coupled with being afraid to ask
questions gives the loud-voice types a license to steal--both money and minds.
They can make declarations that would better fit a fairy tale. Like one time,
in response to me stubbing my toe, a guy sitting off to one side says,
"God is sending you a message." Yeah, he's telling me to watch where
the hell I'm walking. (I thought of belting the guy in the mouth then telling
him God was trying to tell him to keep it shut.)
Me, I think we should try to push our fears
far enough away to take a hard look at the stuff that, under any other
circumstances, grownups would find ridiculous.
FOUR:
Doesn't it
bug you to be interrupted
so much on
your day off?
Well, by now I was pretty much into this
thing, this thing where I get to unload on God and, in doing so, get things off
my chest. My days had settled down to what they were before, although I still
held on to that holy look, not only with my friends but while standing alone in
front of mirrors as well. I kinda liked it. My nights, of course, were spent
with the big guy. I liked that too.
I wondered why he continued to let this
happen. I can't remember getting specific answers to any of my questions,
although I always felt better having asked them. I mean, it not only helped me,
but it also helped my fellow homo-whatsanames. It's like God now knows how the
people think and can begin working on the problems. Politicians do that; a few
of them do, at least.
"Hey, God, about this praying
thing."
(sigh)
"Well, this is a biggie. I mean, some
people think we should walk around all day begging you to do something that, by
their definition, you aren't inclined to want to do on your own."
"Your question, Harold."
"Yeah, well I gathered something together
here that I want to run by you. You see, I figure it's not you expecting us to
do this, this praying stuff, I mean. It's the heavy breathers, the guys with
the funny eyes and loud mouths. Like what can a million repetitions of
"please, God" do other than drive you up the wall, right?"
"Your question, Harold."
"I mean, you have your own mind and your
own criteria. Besides, if everything is preordained, what we say isn't going
make a heck of a lot of difference. You have it on the menu, you're going to do
it. You don't, you won't."
"Harold?"
"Yeah, okay, on to my idea. Well, what it
is is proof that praying doesn't change a thing."
"Proof?"
"Statistical proof. You know, like
political polls, only much bigger."
"You are serious about this?"
"Damn ... eh, darn straight, God. Look,
the way it works is, the bigger the sample, the more reliable the
results--isn't that what a poll is all about?"
"Your point?"
"Yeah, well you take a big enough poll
that the accuracy can't be contested and whatever comes out of it is
mathematical proof--ninety-nine point nine percent probability of it being the
real skinny, that sort of thing. Sorta like proving whose blood you got by
testing its DNA."
"Did you ever hear of the O.J. Simpson
trial, Harold?"
"Yeah, I see your point, God. But I think
that was humans doing the interpreting. Humans with a private agenda."
"And you don't think there'll be
interpreters here who also serve a 'private agenda'?"
"Well, you can't get everybody to be
honest with themselves, God, but if we make the sample large enough, like a
million or even ten million cases, there are going to be a lot less people able
to argue with the results."
"You are going to do this?"
"Ha! Too expensive for me, God. But hel
... eh, heck, for you it'd be a breeze. Just mortgage a galaxy or two."
"Harold!"
"Just joking, God. But think of it. You
get the best experts in the world to construct the most unbiased questionnaire
they can think of, then lay it on millions of people from thousands of
different walks of life--rich, poor, in-between; happy, sad, in-between;
everything you can think of that makes sense. You separate all these
questionnaires into a bunch of categories--heavy praying types, medium praying
types, all the way down to the guy who doesn't even know how to spell
prayer."
"Present company excepted, Harold?"
"Ha! Good one, God. I know about praying;
I just don't believe in it. I mean, I don't think I should keep at you to solve
my problems. I figure you'd rather I quit begging and get out and do something
to solve them myself."
"With some people, Harold, the problems
become overwhelming."
"Hey, I hear you. But, like I said last
night when we were talking about pain and suffering and stuff like that, I
don't figure that's your doing. And I can't see you standing around waiting to
hear someone beg you to stop hurting them--we got names for people who do stuff
like that. Besides, a lot of the praying is just plain silly. I mean, you have
students praying to do well on a final exam--If I was you, I'd tell them to
open a book and get to studying. And somebody else praying their thanks to you
when they have something great happen to them, like winning the lottery. Like
you rigged the thing against all the other guys who played."
"When fortune hits, some people fear it
will not continue unless they share the credit. That is human nature,
Harold."
"Yeah, well it sure doesn't look good
when they do it, God. And it doesn't look good when people accept this as a
worthy demonstration of faith."
"Go on with your question, Harold."
"Yeah, the big statistical poll thing.
Well, you separate each group into whatever categories best speak of the
success they're having in life, both the good and the bad, then you check to
see if there's any meaningful difference between these categories. The trick is
all in the questionnaire. It's got to be constructed in such a way that you
aren't just getting back what you want to see. You can't, for example, ask
something dumb like, 'Does God answer your prayers?'--What nutcase would say no
to that? I mean, he might see fifteen things going wrong with his life and only
one thing going right and seize on the latter as a reason to answer yes to the
question. My point is, if the questionnaire is put together by fair and
reasonable people, then the results will be fair and reasonable and the truth
will unfold. And with such a big sample, that truth will really be the
truth."
"You apparently have decided that there
will be no difference between groups."
"Well, that's why I say I don't think
it's you wanting us to bug you with prayers day in and day out. When I look
around the world, I see things happening to all kinds of people, rich or poor,
smart or dumb, religious or non-religious. And because I'm not looking for what
I want to find, I can see the randomness in it. Bad happens to good people and
bad people anytime and anywhere; there's no pattern to it. People who pray see
what they want to see and interpret what they want to interpret. No, God, I
don't think they'll be any meaningful difference between groups. Not in a
religious sense, there won't."
"A little pessimistic, don't you think,
Harold?"
"Hey, I'm just telling you what I see of
the real world. But you don't have to take my word for it, God. You can do the
study and prove it one way or the other. The way I look at it, if I'm right,
you won't have so many people telling you how to run your business."
"Which you, of course, would never
do."
"Hey, no way. But since you ask, I got a
few ideas about how to set up heaven."
"Goodnight, Harold."
"Eh, goodnight, God."
FIVE:
If we're
your chosen, why did you make us a
Chevy
rather than a Rolls?
Now I didn't really expect him to take me up
on that, but if he had, one of the things I would have suggested is to get some
safe areas going. You know, places where a body ... eh, a person ... could go
to get away from all the guys he didn't like in life. I mean, who wants to
spend eternity with people who make you barf? The loud, preaching types, for
example. (I'll bet they'll continue to rant and rave even when there's no
longer a reason to.)
I would also have suggested that he drop the
wings-on-angels thing. It limits heaven to places that have air, and that makes
it pretty small compared to everything that's out there in the big, wide
universe. And I'd suggest he advertise more, you know, hire the best of Madison
Avenue and let them tell the world what heaven's really like--maybe have
special days or two-for-one sales, whatever makes good marketing sense. A
splashy campaign would get people drooling, get them thinking straight, get the
big guy more takers. Maybe we could get a frequent flyer program going for
angels, that is unless he takes me up on that thing about repossessing angel
wings.
I had the idea that what I was saying about
praying might not make me an instant hit in his eyes, but I figured the big
guy's ego could take the hit. I mean, if his ego is that fragile, what chance
do any of us have of surviving all of eternity? How could we possibly keep from
saying the wrong thing, especially during the first million years when we're
still settling in? Heck, I came close to doing so in just a few nights.
While I was talking to God about praying, I
almost said something about worship. I held back even though I question this as
well. I mean, I question whether that really came from him. If I did that to
someone on Earth--worship a fellow human, I mean--you'd call it kissing ... eh,
up. Now I might like that kind of ego boost myself, but not all the time. After
a few thousand years I'd be ready to tell all my worshippers to put a cork in
it.
The way I see it, it's insulting to say that a
God, who we claim is above it all and can do anything he wants, could be so
small?" I mean, it makes him sound like a Roman emperor or a crazy middle
east despot. Think about what kind of personality somebody would have to have
to want to be "worshipped" all the time?
"Hey, god, you got rules about praying in
heaven?"
"I thought you didn't believe in prayers,
Harold."
"Yeah, well I still had to ask. I mean, I
never said I had all the answers."
"Oh my, I will have to revise your
file."
"Ha! You're quick, God. But anyway, I
figure the answer is no. I mean if we already have paradise, what would we be
praying for?"
"Good point, Harold."
"Eh, God, I detect a little sarcasm
there."
"A God's prerogative, Harold."
"Hey give the devil his ... eh, I guess
that's not a great saying in this neck of the woods, eh, God?"
(sigh)
He knows I didn't mean anything by that. It
was just an expression, something that popped into my mind--happens a lot. The
same thing about the giant poll on praying; it just popped into my mind. And
when that happens, why not come right out and say it, right? He'd be more
pissed at me for trying to hide it than for blurting it out in a forthright
manner like I always do.
What I didn't say, because I sorta chickened
out by then, was that the same kind of poll could apply to religion in general.
I mean, you could do a survey that would check out how people of different
religions have fared in life. My bet is, there wouldn't be a dime's worth of
difference between any of them. Good and bad happens to representatives of all
ten thousand religions pretty much equally.
On thinking about it, I decided it was worth
chancing a question or two with God.
"Hey, God, what religion am I supposed to
be?"
"What?!"
"What religion is the right one, I mean.
They can't all be right; they don't believe the same thing. I got people
telling me they're the only ones who got it right, that you're only interested
in people who believe in religion 5,648. Then I got other people saying the
same thing but about religion 8,926--which contradicts religion 5,648. When I
ask them why I should believe them above everybody else, all they say is that I
should pray to you for guidance."
"Search your heart; what do you see
there?"
"Yeah, I hear you, and I did that. But
all that's sitting in my heart at the moment is confusion and frustration."
"You have no inclination? One direction
or another?"
"Yeah, I have an inclination to go with
the flow; to go along with whoever yells the loudest and threatens me the most.
But doing that won't change a thing, inside of me, I mean. I'll still be wondering
which one, if any, is the truth--if there is a truth out there, that's the one
I want to go with."
"And what do you think is the
truth?"
"Don't have a clue."
"You don't know what you believe?"
"No, I don't mean that. I mean I don't
have a clue which of these thousands of voices is giving me the real skinny. My
heart--and every other part of my body--wants to believe something, but not
something so filled with holes that to believe it I gotta look the other way.
There are too many people doing that; too many people who substitute faith for
truth--if they believe it, they have 'faith' that it's true."
"You don't believe in faith either,
Harold?"
"Well, that's just it, God. Faith in
what? Religion 236, 3,495, 9815? Some say if we guess wrong, we lose our souls?
Ask a representative of any single religion and they'll swear they know the
answer to that question. And they'll say it's you guiding them in this, God,
that they're only doing your bidding."
"And you believe otherwise?"
"Oh heck yes! Whatever god they're
talking about, it isn't you. I mean, why would you tell one guy one thing and
another guy just the opposite? All that does is get them to fighting one
another--there is a lot of that going on, God."
"The insecurity thing, Harold. People
become insecure in direct proportion to how effectively their beliefs are
questioned."
"Well, don't get me wrong, God. They're
not all that way. Some of these heavy-believer types are really nice about it,
being questioned, I mean."
"But you cannot find 'faith' in what they
say."
"Well, I don't gotta be some kind of
mental giant to know that nine thousand, nine hundred and ninety-nine of the
ten thousand religions gotta be wrong. If one guy says something is black and
the next guy says it's white, one of these guys ought to rethink his bets. It's
simple physics."
"Logic, Harold, not physics."
"Yeah, close enough. But I was hoping
you'd give me the real skinny. Then I'll know and can tell the nine thousand,
nine hundred and ninety-nine screamers of today and the nine thousand, nine
hundred and ninety-nine screamers that are sure to pop up tomorrow where to put
their ideas. What do you say, God?"
"I say it's past your bedtime,
Harold."
"Eh, a minute more, God? This is really
important and if you make me wake up now, I'll only have to ask the same thing
tomorrow night."
(sigh)
"I guess that means, okay, right, God?'
"Go on, Harold."
"Well maybe you could do it a different
way. Take all those people with the bulging eyes and help them to cooperate,
help them to think it through."
"And how do you suggest I do this?"
"Simple, fry their butts--just a little,
I mean. At the very least, it would get them out of everybody's face."
"Their hands would be busy soothing their
simmering butts rather than gesturing at the sky."
"You got the picture real good,
God."
"A modest proposal indeed, Harold."
"You really think so, God? Well I been doing
a lot of heavy thinking, and I guess some of it shows."
"Some of it, Harold."
I gotta say, it was like pulling teeth trying
to get the big guy to give me the skinny on this. Well, I don't know if he has
teeth, but you know what I mean.
But the question was probably the most
important one I'd posed since we started having these nightly chats, and I knew
if I had the answer here, I'd be halfway there. I really meant it when I told
God that the concept of 'faith' doesn't cut it with me. By definition it's
belief in the absence of fact. And if you let yourself decide things on faith
rather than fact, where do you draw the line? Should you have faith in Hitler?
In Stalin? Should a Christian nod agreement when a Buddhist asks him to accept
Buddha on faith? Or a Moslem with Jesus? I mean, if you got a Buddhist who
relies on faith and a Christian who relies on faith then common sense should
tell you that, for at least one of these guys, faith isn't getting the job
done.
"You are a picture of tolerance,
Harold."
"Hey, tolerance is my middle name, God.
It's just I don't like a lot of the people I tolerate."
(sigh)
Anyhow, why should faith be substituted for
God-given reasoning? Me, I think there should be more of the old brain power
applied to what a guy believes. If it fits, run with it; if it doesn't, change
it or chuck it. What I see out there right now is far from what I would flatter
with the term "brain power." I see people locking step with other
people, falling into line on the basis of faith and swearing passionate
allegiance to religion 7,892, this even though they never bothered to get to
know the others. It's sorta like the concept of tradition; "If our
forefathers did it this way, that's good enough for me."
"Too often, tradition is the refuge of
small minds, Harold. Why should those who are no longer alive get to call the
shots for you? The knowledge available to mankind today is superior to that
available to your "forefathers;" logic suggests that this makes their
viewpoints and their arguments less defensible than your own."
"Yeah, I hear you, God, but I didn't mean
to condemn tradition, at least not all the way. I mean, some of it is sorta
nice; some of the things I used to do as a kid gives me kicks even today. And
the ceremonies and stuff like that; I don't know what we'd do without
them."
"What you keep and what you discard is
completely up to you, Harold. I merely encourage you to make it your choice and
not the choice of those who have already lived their lives."
I didn't argue the point because I agreed with
him. I think too many people hide behind weak statements and call it
"tradition"--"Our forefathers wanted it this way," stuff
like that. Sometimes people say such things to make something else they're
saying go down easier. Like guys who say we should as a nation
"favor" the religion that our forefathers favored. Putting aside the
error in that--we had all kinds of religions in the founding fathers, which is
probably the reason they tried to come up with something fair to
everybody--that's just another way of one guy trying to bully his beliefs onto
his neighbor.
I guess religion itself is a form of
tradition. I mean, for most people religious education is not so much a search
for knowledge as it is memorizing all the things your parents believe. Oh,
there are some who look into the competition, but mostly this is just in search
of reasons why the next guy's beliefs don't stand up to their own. They don't
look at what religion 3,801 really is, where it came from, and why so many good
people swear by it.
"Hey, God, I got a good example of why we
need help. We got all kinds of people--people of good heart--feeding their kids
a narrow point of view and telling them it's hard fact."
"Your point, Harold?"
"Well, I'm wondering the value of what
these kids wind up believing. Or what their parents believe for that matter,
since chances are they got it from their parents? And what about the morality
of telling kids that there's only one truth, that everybody else got it wrong?
"To them everyone else does have it
wrong."
"Yeah, but it's gotta be obvious even to
them that what they say can't be fact if they can't prove it and if somebody
else disagrees with them--which is always the case."
"Yes, but you can not prove them in error
either, and that to them is a more salient 'fact.'"
"Well, okay, but what does that say about
the concept of truth? Why is Catholicism true if you grow up in a Catholic home
and Judaism true if you grow up in a Jewish home? You switch these kids at
birth and chances are they're going to see it different. The Catholic kid will
swear by Judaism and the Jewish kid will swear by Catholicism. Same with any
other religion; chances are the kids are going to accept what they're told by
their parents, maybe even beat up other kids to prove how right they are. To
them, everybody else is some kind of nutcase who can't see the 'light' that
they can see so easily. And these are nice people I'm talking about; good
people."
"Would you have parents teach their
children something that they themselves do not believe?"
"Well, no, but anyone with a shred of
honesty about him has got to know that he's skirting the truth if not outright
lying to his own flesh and blood. I gotta wonder why people do that. Does it
strengthen their own beliefs if they brainwash their kids the same way they
were brainwashed when they were kids? Me, I think they should tell the little
monsters the truth, that there are thousands of different opinions on what
happens after death, and that no one currently alive has any way of proving
which one, if any, is correct.
"They follow their hearts, Harold."
"Are you saying there's no harm done,
God?"
"That depends on how demanding a parent
is that their children adhere to the specifics of their teachings."
"Yeah, I know what you mean. I've seen
parents drive their kids away from religion entirely just by being too
strict."
"To the extent that they do not inflict a
crippling trauma on their child, they are merely passing on their opinion--even
as they present this as fact. And what opinion they pass on is, as you say,
born of good intent."
"I think I know what you're saying, God,
that I should be more tolerant. It's just that I have trouble understanding why
it isn't better if the kids know all the facts rather than just a few. Then
they could start thinking for themselves."
"Not realistic under today's
circumstances, Harold. The subject matter engenders too much emotion."
As you can see, this one really gets to me. It
wouldn't be half bad if "the subject matter" didn't bring so much
havoc to the world. Having so many opinions, each competing for that illusive
"one and only truth," brings out the worst in people. Not just now,
but all through recorded history. Jealousy, hate, intolerance and more wars
than I can count, all between "good" God-fearing people and all in
the name of this or that brand of religion. I wouldn't ask God this--at least
not directly--but I often get to wondering whether peace on earth and good will
toward men wouldn't be better served by encouraging less religion rather than
more.
SIX:
You going
to write any more books?
"It's me, God. Harold. I'm asleep again
and I got an idea."
"There is a me after all."
"Hey, you're in a good mood tonight, huh,
God?"
"Are you saying I have bad moods,
Harold?"
"Well, you can bet I'm watching out for
them. I mean, taking care to be diplomatic and all."
"'Diplomatic?'"
"Yeah. That's where you watch what
y..."
"I know what the word means,
Harold."
"Oh yeah, of course. You probably
invented it, huh?"
(sigh) I take it you are still on the same
kick?"
"Well, sorta. I've been reading about
ancient religions, the ones we don't believe in any more."
"False Gods."
"Yeah, everybody agrees with that now.
Trouble is, religions come and go yet nobody learns from this, how we laugh at
what went before us even as we grab a new religion and fly with it. And even as
this new religion changes over time. Your guy Jesus, for example, he's only two
thousand years old, but already the truth about what he was and what we should
do to acknowledge him is split hundreds of ways, some of them sporting claims
that are really far out. Like the guys who believe they have the right to lord
it over gals. And other guys who think you want them to have a bunch of
wives--I gotta confess, that one might have a little of the old 'socially
redeeming value.'"
"You see that as fair, Harold?"
"Hey, they don't say much about fair,
God. They say you're the one telling them to do this, that the gals have to
give in or risk getting a barbecued butt from you."
"You said you had an idea, Harold."
"Yeah, something you said last night
about giving you advice."
"And you're not worried that I might
consider this a bit ... presumptuous?"
"Well, I figured you liked a guy with
initiative, a guy willing to jump in and do his bit no matter what the risk to
him personally."
(sigh) "Proceed, Harold."
"Well, I've been reading about the
goddess Astarte, where those who believed in her worshipped in a kinda nice
way. When they felt the need to be holy, they sought out a little
knookie."
"Knookie?"
"Yeah, that's where a guy and a
gal..."
"I know the procedure, Harold."
"Yeah, well I figured this into my
campaign to advertise heaven--I did tell you about that, didn't I?"
"What do you think?"
"Oh sure, you read my mind. Well the
other things I said ... eh, thought ... were intended in a good way, God. I
meant, no offense, right?"
"You think I should 'advertise' to those
who wish to join me here in heaven that an 'Astarte' will be waiting to greet
them?"
"Well, not exactly, God. I just thought
it wouldn't hurt for a little of that stuff to leak through in our worship of
you. That would boost the old attendance in church a bit."
"You want to think that through,
Harold?"
"Huh? Oh god, God. I didn't mean you
directly. I didn't mean that."
"Who do you imagine would carry out such
a ... benefit?"
"Well, now that you come ... eh get ...
right down to it, God, I guess you're right: I do need to think it
through."
"Please do, Harold. ...And let me know if
you come up with something that might work."
"Ha! Way to go, God! You really are in a
good mood tonight."
(sigh)
I figured he wasn't too disappointed with my
suggestion, and that encouraged me to think up more. Heck, any place could use
a little livening up from time to time, even heaven. After a few thousand years
of tiptoeing around trying not to make waves, a little diversion would be a
godsend ... eh, blessing. The place could probably use a little maintenance
too.
That last thought brought to mind another
question to ask the big guy: Who does the cleaning in heaven. I wonder if he
has trouble getting them to do windows.
"Hey, God, you going to write any more
books?"
"You do think in mysterious ways,
Harold."
"Yeah, I guess we are a pair at that, you
and me. What I mean is--and I'm not saying I didn't like your first book--in
today's world, the Bible is read so many different ways, you don't know what to
believe. We need a new edition, an updated version, bigger and better, with all
the really cool words of today--you can make room for them by dropping the
thee's and the thou's. That's not how they talked in your time anyway. I mean,
they talked Hebrew, right?"
"It could be that I like the gentle
nature of the thee's and the thou's, Harold."
"Hey, no sweat; we go with the thee's and
thou's. Anyway, I think there's merit to my idea, God. I mean, you don't want
to go down as a one-book author. ...Hey, God, where'd you go; I was
talking."
There was another part of that I wanted to
ask: About an article I read mentioning the possibility of the Bible being
written by a woman, that the way it presents women, in a more favorable light
than anyone thought of women in those days, sorta hints at that. The subtle
humor too; more like a woman's humor. Just as well he bugged off; my asking
could prompt him to start looking around for lightning bolts. You know how
authors can be when you mess around with their stuff.
SEVEN:
(This being
the seventh night,
me and
God.)
EIGHT:
Why should
the meek inherit anything?
Well I sure put my foot in it that night.
Enough so that, as soon as I woke up, I crossed off a lot of the questions I
was figuring to ask. I mean, you come close to the fire enough times and you're
going to feel the heat--I think Harry Truman said that.
Even so, I believe my idea about Astarte would
work if God and me put our heads together. It's not that I think Earthly
pleasures are more important than heavenly bliss. Just that they have a certain
flavor to them that isn't all that bad. I mean, God must have tried the sex
thing at one time, otherwise why would he have thought to pass it through to
us. And since he did pass it through to us, he must have wanted us to use it.
Nice guy that God. Good morale builder.
"Hey, God, why don't we ever talk during
the daytime?"
"I have my limits, Harold."
"Huh?"
"Between our talks, I feel a great need
to rest."
"Yeah, I get a little tired myself. The
next time we get to the seventh night we should party a little."
(sigh) "I feel that need pouring over me
again."
"Hey, no sweat, God. I'll let you
go."
"You know, Harold, sometimes I wish I had
given you a sense of humor. Go on with your questions, please."
"Eh, yeah. Well, my question is, why do
you prefer simple people? I mean, why should the meek inherit anything, let
alone the whole Earth? What did they ever do to deserve that?"
"Jesus Christ, did I say that?"
"Eh, God?"
"Another God joke, Harold. I suppose I
was expecting too much of you to understand it."
"No, I get it; I really do. Pretty good,
God. But you gotta watch that blasphemy. Ha ha--a little human joke, God."
(sigh)
"Yeah, well anyway, everybody has
something to say about the 'simple people' being special to you? I mean, that
tells me I gotta stay dumb or poor all my life or I'm going to come out second.
What I want to know is, what's wrong with those who use the brains and the
determination that you gave them? What's wrong with people who get ahead? Or
get rich? What does being rich do to a guy that being poor doesn't--they say
money doesn't buy happiness, God, but the last time I looked, neither does
poverty?"
"You are a complicated person,
Harold."
"That mean this isn't a good
question?"
"No, it means, among other things, that
you make much the same assumptions that you find fault in in others then
proceed as if, in believing them, you imagine them to be true."
"Are you saying you don't give preference
to the poor?"
"My preference is to humanity, Harold.
When you attempt to qualify that, you do so at your own peril. I suggest that,
in keeping with your proclaimed desire to see truth, you take a hard look at
where and why such claims originate."
"Sour grapes?"
"In part. There is also a need to be more
than one appears to be on Earth--to one's self, I mean--you suffer the same
need; I can see that in you. If one is ... unlucky ... on Earth one wishes to
believe that this will be made up for in death."
"Eh, will it, God?"
"You seek truth, Harold, but in many ways
you are not ready for it."
"Eh..."
"Perhaps later, Harold. For now I will
agree only to receive another of your ... questions."
"Yeah, okay, God. But maybe we can get
back to that one later, huh?"
"Your next question, Harold."
"Yeah, well I have another one about
heaven."
"I thought we already discussed
that."
"Oh, that was about where heaven was.
What I'm wondering now are things like, if everybody is so set on going to
heaven, why are they so afraid of dying? And why do they get upset when someone
close to them dies if they think they're going to see them again in
heaven?"
"That would be better answered by
them."
"Yeah, well it strikes me as a little
inconsistent, like when it really comes down to it, they don't believe."
"Perhaps they are afraid of the process
of dying."
"Sure, some of them probably are, but
others go ape over the very thought of it, even when it's a matter of dying in
their beds. I've seen people afraid to go to sleep at night, afraid they won't
wake up."
"As I say, ask them."
"Yeah, well, I sure wish I knew what they
...
"Ask them, Harold."
"Eh, yeah sure, God. Well how about this
one: There was a study that suggested religion is good for your health. I
thought about that one for a long time, God, and what bothers me about it is it
says that if you're super-religious it will take you longer to get to heaven
than if you were casual about religion. I mean, like you take slackers into
Heaven faster."
"I take back what I said about your sense
of humor, Harold. Go on."
"I wasn't being funny, God."
"I disagree, Harold, you were being very funny.
Go on!"
"Eh, yeah. Whatever you say, God. Well,
and this is the last one I got on heaven."
"Praise me."
"Yeah, I hear you, God, and I'm not
trying to tell you how to run your shop ... eh, heaven ... or anything like
that. But now that we're on the subject, I got a few ideas."
"I heard them; I tapped your mind last
night."
"Oh not those. I got new ones. But I
gotta tell you, you might not like these as much as you did those other
ones."
"I don't remember liking the earlier ones
all that much."
"Well, it was pretty late and we were
both a little tired. Sometimes that makes me forget things too."
(sigh)
"Well, I was thinking of getting a good
old American democracy going. You know, where everybody gets a vote."
(sigh)
"You see, we're taught all our lives that
we should be free. In America, we put great stock in having a voice and an
opinion--we don't agree with something, we sing out. Everybody says that's a
good thing; makes us stronger, makes us better people, that kind of thing. But
then I hear that even to hint that I feel that way where you're concerned makes
me some kind of devil. Too 'ambitious' in your eyes. I gotta tell you, that
confuses me some. Why is democracy so good in America and so bad in
heaven?"
"I go by different rules."
"Yeah, but I got trouble figuring out
what you're trying to tell us by that. I mean, do you want us to get a King going
in America, is that it? Something a little closer to what you got going in
heaven?"
"You think I'm a dictator?"
"Hey, no way, God. Well, I guess you do
have the final say on things. All things, for that matter. But 'dictator' is a
nasty word. No way it would apply to you. No way would I imply..."
"Let it go, Harold."
"But you gotta admit, you do have a
kingdom. I mean, everybody talks about it, 'the Kingdom of Heaven' and all
that.
"Harold?"
"Eh, we getting close to butt burning,
God?"
"The thought has crossed my mind."
"Ha!--I mean I hope it's 'ha.' But this
does run up against what we talked about a few nights ago, the thing about
bettering ourselves, always aspiring to be something greater. It's kinda hard
to grow up that way, where you got all kinds of Nathan Hales telling you you
should be willing to die rather than give up your freedom, then forget all
about that when you do die."
"Are you saying you will not be happy any
other way?"
"Hey, I don't want to throw away what I
got. Especially when there aren't a heck of a lot of alternatives. I just
wonder the why about it, God. I mean, the way I see it, I'm going to be on
permanent welfare. Whatever I get will depend on you. My job is to just go
along--forever. It makes me think."
"Do you know what a lobotomy is,
Harold?"
"Ha! Always the jokester, God. But I'm
beginning to follow you better. I mean, I gather from our time together that
you want me to work a lot of this out by myself, right? I mean, I can't believe
there aren't some good answers sitting out there."
"You mean, you don't want to believe
there aren't."
"Yeah, I guess that's it. Sorta a
contradiction of what I've been saying, huh? I want to believe so I invent
reasons why I should, the same kind of thing everybody else does."
"You're growing up, Harold."
"I sure wish I knew what you meant by
that, God."
NINE:
Don't you
believe in democracy?
I knew he was right, even if I didn't know
what he was saying. I was doing my own kind of inventing, my need to believe no
less than anybody else's. That disappoints me; I disappoint me. I'm no better
than the guys I complain about.
No that's not true. I'm weak like all humans
are weak, but I'm trying, I mean really trying--the quality of the questions I
ask my good buddy, God, proves that. I don't think other people try as hard.
They hide behind their prejudices and their fears; they hang around in the dark
and talk about seeing light. And they're quick to attach religious meaning to
random events. Like they'll see two hundred people get mashed to pieces in an
airplane crash, then find a baby still alive and cry, "miracle"--what
about the two hundred who got mashed?!
If you examine enough disasters, sooner or
later you'll find one where somebody pulls through when you think they can't.
That's what 'random' is all about. It's just fooling ourselves if we make more
of it than that, if we make something of our good luck without also making
something of the times when our luck isn't so good. If a plane manages to land
on a shoestring, we say it's God's work, but when it crashes we say somebody
screwed up. What kind of logic says the squashed guys are our doing and the
safe landing is God's doing?
"I believe I answered that, Harold. When
fortune hits, some people fear it will not continue unless they share the
credit."
"But this is what I mean, God. Some of it
is so obvious that you gotta be half asleep to go along with it?"
"I 'gotta'?"
"Oh not you, God, the human guys. Like a
little while ago there was a church dinner where close to four hundred people
came down with food poisoning while they were inside the church. Yet nobody
thought about that, how it points to the randomness of it all (if they don't
believe it happened at random, then they gotta believe all these churchgoers
were singled out for special treatment, like maybe you got tired of hearing all
that praying I was talking about earlier.)"
(sigh)
"Then they went on to say the fate of
those still fighting for their lives is in the hands of you. Pardon me for
asking the obvious, God, but whose hands was it in before they ate the poisoned
food?"
"The other side of my previous answer,
Harold, also involving fear. Fear of what else might befall them should they
fail to respond as required."
"'Required,' God?"
"If they believe it, Harold, then to them
it is required."
"Yeah, but isn't that superstition?"
"To you perhaps, but certainly not to
them."
"Yeah, but..."
"Give it time, Harold.
I began to wonder whether I'd be given that
much time; I mean, the questions were piling up faster than the answers.
Anyway, the worst one for me was a Catholic
elementary school in Philadelphia that burned down in the fifties taking almost
a hundred kids along with it. What kind of miracle was that? Were those tiny
little people sinners, or was God just having a bad day? The point is, when
beliefs get to the point where they just don't make sense, it's hard to keep on
believing--unless, as God said, a person is afraid to do otherwise. And if
that's the case then he gotta hope he can convince his subconscious, because
that little sucker knows the real truth.
"You know, God, it's like people want to
live in a fairy tale, where there are good fairies and bad fairies. The good
fairies can do no wrong and the bad fairies can do no right--this is grownups
I'm talking about here. For example, the funny-eyes guys say that you do only
good, but then say five minutes later that if we use your name in a way you
don't like, you're going to singe our butts, maybe for all eternity. That's
good? That makes sense?"
"Assumptions again, Harold. Don't believe
everything you hear. Think for yourself."
"But they're pretty loud about that
particular subject, God. Using your name in vain kind of stuff, I mean."
"Do you think me so shallow, Harold? Do
you think, after creating a universe as vast as this, that I would get all
weepy-eyed over a misapplication of my name? Especially when, in the eyes of so
many offenders, they are simply giving voice to a momentary disappointment or
an onset of pain?"
I liked that. It was a good solid answer. It
made sense. If we caught someone making fun of our president, we wouldn't set
him on fire--unless he was from the other party. We wouldn't do this even for a
single day, let alone for eternity. Heck, we don't even treat murderers that
way, regardless of what party they belong to.
Same kind of thing with punishment in general.
If we yell "cruel and unusual punishment" for mankind, why do we
blindly accept as okay whatever is dealt out by God (or whatever the funny-eyes
guys say is dealt out by God)? Me, I think this is just another example of
fairy tale craziness. We let people invent things because we're afraid to
challenge what they say. They present opposition to what they're saying as
going against God, and this makes our base superstitions kick in. We get to
thinking the big guy is about to unlock the closet where the lightning bolts
are kept.
I figured this was a good one to lay on God.
"Don't you believe in democracy,
God?"
"I told you, Harold, I have different
rules."
"But what I'm asking now is whether you
agree that torching a guy for a little misstep here and there is a bit extreme,
what we Americans call 'cruel and unusual punishment'? Me, I think it's the invention
of the people down there, not you."
"Believers have a tendency toward the
extreme at times, Harold."
"'Knoweth not what they do,' eh
God?"
"Something like that."
"Eh, that mean you wouldn't set us on
fire for stepping out of line?"
"Are you really asking whether I am
'enlightened,' Harold? As 'enlightened' as those who run your
'democracy'?"
"Well, gosh, God, I don't know. That
depends on what you're going to do to me if I say yes."
"Next question, Harold."
"Eh, yeah, God. It's just that there are
a lotta people down there thinking you don't like what they're doing, and that
you're going to show your displeasure in some really scary ways."
"Representatives of your
'democracy'?"
"Well, yeah. But if we got it wrong, we
wouldn't mind you setting us straight."
"Suppose I said that you should conduct
yourselves as you imagine I do, that you should inflict immense cruelties upon
one another for even the slightest of infractions. Would you consider then that
you have been 'set straight'?"
"Well, ..."
"Would you then seek to persuade your
lawmakers that you have been 'enlightened,' that you have learned the preferred
method of addressing one another's indiscretions?"
"Well, ..."
"'Well' what, Harold?!"
"Well, when you put it that way ..."
"When I 'put it that way,' the absurdity
of it shines through. Might I suggest, Harold, that when you attribute such
behavior to me, you are in effect saying that I am absurd as well?"
"Gosh, God, I sure don't mean to suggest
that!"
"Then don't, Harold! Next question,
please."
"Yeah, but I didn't mean to be
insulting."
"Even so, you are, Harold. You all are,
not only in what you attribute to me but in how easily you excuse yourselves in
doing so."
I couldn't be sure, but I think I made him
angry. I didn't hear thunder or anything like that, but it sorta came through,
the anger I mean. It makes me wonder what he really thinks about us, whether
he's mad or just disappointed. I can understand the latter: just look at what
we are, how little able we are to get along with each other. But then, we are
his creations, and if we're a Chevy and not a Rolls, I figure he meant us to be
that way and won't hold it against us. Like we produce a kid, we gotta look out
for him, no matter what he turns out to be.
"I have had many creations, Harold. I had
Neanderthals in Europe, Java Man in Asia and Homo Sapiens in Africa. The last
group--which is you--decided to wander and soon the other two ceased to exist.
The behavior of Homo Sapiens has not changed all that much since then,
Harold."
"Well, I'm not saying we're perfect, God,
but..."
"Let's move on, please."
"Eh, yeah, sure. Well, actually this does
relate to what we're talking about: there's a lot of confusion down there, God,
and it make us do funny things, like what you were saying about the Neanderthal
and Java guys. I'm not blaming you, you understand. But maybe you could goose
your supervisors a bit. I mean, Christ ... eh heck. Under-achievers, every one of
them."
"Under-achievers?"
"Like I said, it's a mess down there; a
real mess. All kinds of things happening to all kinds of people, some of it
really mean and bad. We got people who don't want to hold on to life, it's so
bad."
"And you think I am the cause of
this."
"Well, whoever you got pressing the
buttons, God. I mean, if that's how it works."
"You think I should wave a wand and make
everyone happy."
"Well, It wouldn't hurt. I can't see you
liking misery any more than we do."
"And how do you suppose I go about
this?"
"Hey, that's great that you're asking,
God, cause I got ideas coming out of my ... eh ... ears. Like, I hear all about
you waving your hand and saying let there be this or let there be that. Why not
do it again--I mean when you're not too tired and in a good mood, of
course?"
"Which hand should I wave, Harold?"
"I'm not sure what you're asking,
God."
"You know what I should do but not how I
should do it."
"Yeah, I hear you. I didn't mean to play
you or anything like that. I just thought it'd be nice if you could say
something like, 'Let there be happy humans!' I mean, you could say let them be
good humans at the same time; that'd be okay. Then they wouldn't pis ... eh
anger you so much. I figure it's in your power to do this; everybody says
so."
"The 'guys with the funny eyes'?"
"Yeah, I guess I am beginning to sound
like them, but from where I stand, it sure looks like a good thing. As near as
I can figure, nobody asked to be born, so popping them out then throwing some
bad stuff their way doesn't strike me as all that fair--no offense, God."
(sigh)
"I mean, if it was me who made them, I'd
feel like..."
"I get your point, Harold."
"And you're not mad, God?"
"As you said, Harold, my ego can take the
hit."
I still think I made him mad, though. For the
rest of the conversation, he didn't make any God jokes. He didn't even poke fun
at me like he sometimes does. It got me to thinking that maybe I'm doomed to
keep all these questions bottled up inside me forever--I can tell you, that's a
thought I don't like. Wouldn't do much for me or anybody else as far as I can
see.
I still think he or his supervisors could put
some of my ideas into play. Like before a war starts, let everybody know which
side the big guy is on. That would slow down the misery a bit. If God had
declared himself before World War II, fifty million families wouldn't have lost
a loved one. (Wouldn't you love to see the faces of the wrong side when he
announces his decision?)
I tried to lighten up the conversation by
talking about the Big Bang, the thing that got the whole universe going. But
when I said, "It must've scared the hell out of you when it
happened," he stared at me for a long moment then woke me up.
TEN:
"God, you gotta tell me, am I going
through all this for a purpose, or is feeling like a dog going to be my lot for
eternity?"
"Where did that come from, Harold?"
"Well, I got to thinking about last
night, what we were saying about all the misery on Earth."
"What you were saying, you mean."
"Well, yeah, but your supervisors should
be reporting back to you that it's really happening."
"Is it real for you too, Harold?"
"Hey, I'm not one to complain, but I
haven't always had an easy time of it."
"And you think I should pave the way for
you--'permanent welfare' I think you called it."
"Well I was thinking about heaven not
Earth. And isn't that what we're led to believe, that everything will be roses
up here?"
"Yes, it is what you are led to
believe."
"I don't follow you, God."
"You relate to me the many opinions on
Earth in regard to what is or what isn't. You add that many of these opinions
do not make sense. Why then do you accept the 'opinion' that 'all will be
roses' as a result of your passing on to heaven?"
"I'm not sure whether you're chiding me
for not believing enough or telling me I should question this as well."
"You pride yourself in questions, Harold.
And in your willingness to express them. It shows inconsistency to draw a limit
to any part of what you believe. Indeed, in your mind, to do so represents a
form of sacrilege."
"I like the way you put that, God, but
I'm still not sure what you're telling me. That I should or that I
shouldn't."
"It is yet another thing you must think
about, Harold."
"Sometimes I think there are too many
things I have to think about, God. And that I won't ever get the answers I'm
looking for."
"Are you sure they exist?"
"Well I'm sure I'm here with you now. At
least I think I am--some people say you're only in our mind, there to make us
think we don't have to die."
"Dying gets you into the realm of the
unknown, and for most people that is a realm they would rather not think
about."
"Except when they think it's not going to
happen."
"They are dying, Harold. Why deny them
their desire to make it less than that? Up to the point where their human mind
dissolves, what they believe is true."
"And after that point?"
"'What's real is real,' Harold. Those
were your words, I believe."
"Well, I sure would like to hear your
words, God. Like this thing about what goes on up here."
"Use the brain I gave you. There are
inconsistencies in what humans believe of this just as there are--as you have
pointed out so candidly these last few nights--inconsistencies in other aspects
of human thought and belief."
"Yeah, okay, but I gotta be honest with
you, God. I never could see the logic of going through the whole life thing if
everything's going to be so different in heaven. Like I said before, I don't
think heaven is about reward or punishment. I figure you made us good or you
made us bad, and the rest is just playing it out. And if we're just playing it
out, what sense does reward or punishment make?"
"What about 'free will'?"
"Well, most of us don't know what free
will really means. I mean, if, as they tell us, we gotta give you credit for
all the good, then the only free will we have is to do bad. Or refrain from
doing bad. There are temptations all over the place that both strong people and
weak people face, and even the strong have to give in sometimes else they'd go
nuts."
"You don't think temptation tests
character?"
"Maybe for some people it does, but for
most of us, it's just another monkey wrench thrown into the gear box of an
already tough life. I mean, why put a giant ice cream cone in front of a kid
then tell him you're gonna burn his butt if he touches it? We have
psychiatrists who make up names for people like that."
"You think I should see a shrink,
Harold?"
"Hey, no way, God. It's just I don't
believe this is you; I don't believe you would do that. I mean, telling a guy
he has free will then tossing him into the furnace if he chooses anything other
then the choice-of-the-day doesn't strike me as free anything. He's got no real
choice at all."
"The guys with the funny eyes
again?"
"You got it, big guy--eh, is it okay for
me to call you that, God?"
(sigh) "I've heard worse."
"Well, anyway, I don't think you'd stick
a temptation in our face then sit back and watch to see if we give in to it. I
mean, what purpose would that serve? It's not even fair. You put somebody
else's food in front of a guy whose stomach is full and chances are he's not
going to steal it. Do the same for a hungry guy and the temptation there is
greater, maybe more than he can take. People do bad for a lot of reasons, some
of it understandable and some not so understandable. Some give in to the heat
of passion, their emotions temporarily getting the most of them. Now, I know
they all gotta be dealt with, but I don't see you in there torturing them with
even more temptation; I don't think you're that kind of guy."
"'Guy,' Harold?"
"Yeah, you know, a tormentor. That's
gotta be the guys I've been talking about saying that."
"You feel temptation has no place in the
world of humans?"
"Well, I don't know about that; I just
don't agree with making it out to be some kind of holy test."
"I see."
"I guess in real life, it's always gonna
be there, but it sure can make you unhappy at times."
"It always makes you unhappy?"
"Well, not always. Sometimes it makes me
unhappy when I don't give in, like when I put a girl to bed then decide to be a
good guy and go home. Other times it gives me a boost."
"How so?"
"Well, like when I find somebody's wallet
and give it back to him."
"Don't you feel there is meaning in
that?"
"Yeah, it means I don't need the money.
But I got friends who need it real bad, and they might feel like ... eh feces
... but they won't give it back. Now, I don't agree with that kind of thinking,
but then it's easier for me. As I say, I don't need the cash."
"Why have you forsaken me, Harold?"
"How's that, God?"
(sigh) Just another God joke, Harold. You have
anything else you want to discuss?"
"I shortened my list, God."
"Yes, I peeked at your thoughts last
night. But the questions you struck are still in your mind, and there is no
reason to be ashamed of them."
"Hey, I'm glad you said that, God. I
mean, it's not that I'm evil or anything like that; it's just I got a lot of
doubts. And it's the people going around telling me they have the only answers
worth talking about that give me these doubts."
"Do you find any of what people say
'worth talking about'?"
"Hard for me to believe any of it when
they keep coming up with stuff that can only fly when a person is afraid to
call them on it. And I think they know that's not going to happen with most of
their flock--the superstition thing again, fear of punishment."
"But you are not afraid?"
"Well, since I don't know what the real
skinny is, I'm not all that comfortable. But I figured you and me are buddies
and can talk it out, right?"
"Go on, Harold."
"Yeah, well I'd appreciate time to get
into my asbestos suit if you change your mind."
"Harold."
"Just kidding, God."
"Go on, please."
"Yeah, right. Well, getting back to these
contradictory religions going on all at the same time. A lot of them have their
'documented eyewitnesses'--sightings in Lourdes, sightings of Mohammed riding
up to heaven on a horse, that kind of thing. Since a lot of them contradict one
another, how can they all be fact? Logic says a lot of people are seeing things
that aren't there."
"If such beliefs bring comfort to
someone, can they be so wrong?"
"Depends on how a guy carries out his
beliefs. If he keeps it to himself, I got no problem with it. If he tries to
throw it in my face, I got a lot of problems with it."
"The contradictions, you mean."
"Yeah, and the way he tries to force his
ideas on me, either forcefully or subtly--a word here or there, a knowing smile.
I say, don't come yelling to me--oh, you can, of course, God. Anyway, don't
tell me what's going to happen if I don't jump on this or that narrow little
bandwagon unless you can also explain how all you guys can be right at the same
time. Me, I think you should put your faith to a test now and then, I mean a
real test not something believers like to make up so they can feel better about
what they want to believe in the first place? You do that, you have faith in
something real."
"As you do?"
"Well, that's just it; I don't know what
to have faith in, God. I just know that what others think I should believe
doesn't hold up under close examination."
"I don't hold up under close
examination?"
"You do; they don't. At least I think you
do--it would help, God, if you told me what this was all about."
"Me? Heaven? What?"
"All of the above. What do we have now
that's better than what we had before we were born--we don't even know what we
had then? Why are we here and where are we headed? Running around for all
eternity giving thanks and singing hymns doesn't strike me as an end game in
itself."
"Is this an end run, Harold, a way to get
the answer you failed to get earlier?"
"I'm still hurting, God. I'd hurt less if
I knew."
"I will go this far, Harold: I am here
because you say I'm here."
"But what if I say you're not? What would
be the sense of all this then?"
"The sense would be what you then make of
it."
"I don't follow, God."
"You say you want to know, to make sense
of it all. Don't you think this is happening?"
"I still don't follow."
"What do you know now that you did not
know ten thousand years ago?"
"Well, heck, ten thousand years covers a
lot of territory."
"So does the answer."
"You mean what mankind has learned since
then?"
"Is the Earth still flat? Does the
universe revolve around the Earth? Is an eclipse still evidence of a god's
displeasure?"
"I see what you mean, but that's not
exactly what I was hoping for."
"But are these not answers? However
slowly, are you not learning?"
"Boy, 'slowly' is the key word there,
God. At this rate, I'll be long gone before I get to know what I should do in
life--about religion, I mean."
"And you think that, if you guess wrong,
I will ... singe your butt."
"Well, it would help if I knew where you
kept the matches--just kidding again, God. I'm not exactly encouraging the old
heat treatment, but since you brought up the subject, I wouldn't mind knowing
what to do to avoid it. That is, if it's true that you would do such a horrible
thing to a great person like me, which I don't think you would."
"Even among your 'funny-eyes' people,
there are as many opinions as there are members of their widely-diverse groups.
By your logic, I would have to singe every one of them. Except, that is, for
that fortunate individual who happened to get it all right--assuming he or she
exists."
"Hey, I hear you, God. And I don't mind
telling you, that makes me feel a whole lot better. But, eh, if you change your
mind, I know a few guys who should be way up there on your butt-burning
list."
"Thank you, Harold. Your opinion means so
much to me."
ELEVEN:
Could I get
a second opinion?
I knew what he was doing. He was making me
think, and at the same time telling me it's okay to do that, that he won't cut
me off in mid-sentence with a well-aimed lightning bolt. But that 'ten thousand
years thing,' that really set me off. What it tells me is that we either have
to be patient big-time or come up with answers on our own--like discovering
that the world is round, that kind of stuff. It also tells me that we shouldn't
get so upset with the guys who think they already have them, the answers, I
mean. In time, they're gonna know the truth, and then whatever's left of their
faces will be a neat shade of red.
When I look back, I see a lot of things that
used to be really scary to mankind. Scary because we didn't know enough about
them; they were the mysterious "unknown." But each thing we
discovered drove another of these unknowns into the trash bin and brought back
in its place a little hope that there really is an explanation for everything,
that we don't have to keep making up stuff that never pans out. God is right;
we're not afraid of eclipses any more because we finally learned what causes
them. It wasn't the gods giving us a "sign" or telling us we're about
to be bombarded with misery. It was just the Earth or the moon getting in the
way of the sun--I wonder how many non-believers were put to death for failing
to go along with what the priests of that day were telling them?
Makes me wonder though, what kind of natural
phenomenon encouraged the creation of the sex goddess, Astarte. Now there's a
group of thinkers!
I wonder what this tells us about space. Space
that never ends and warps around in such a way that time becomes something we
only think we know about? That one is still scary, scary enough for the
funny-eyes guys to make up a new religion about it. (I bet they will. Maybe
make Elvis Presley the chief god.)
We now know about evolution; how we got to
look like we do is no big secret any more. So the part of religion that tries
to say otherwise can be flushed down the john, as we flushed away the part that
told us all the wrong things about eclipses. We also know how to create
life--now that was something I'll bet we never thought we'd get a handle on.
It's based on a natural chemical process. A little ammonia, the right kind of
atmosphere, maybe a little electricity, throw in a few acids and stuff like
that--I'll bet that's how God did it."
"Tread carefully there, Harold."
"Huh? Oh yeah, God, I always do. I mean
safe sex and all that."
(sigh)
Anyway, we can create a baby without too much
sweat, even in a laboratory. Grab an egg, fertilize it and you got a brand new
life. Of course, you have to put it in a lady to keep it going, but we would be
some kind of short-sighted to believe that's anything but a temporary
limitation. (I'm not sure I like the idea, but the point is, it is possible.)
You can even get more than one baby, I mean through the use of hormones and
stuff like that. Now some say that's playing God, but I say no. You gotta think
these things through. I mean you go yelling stuff like 'playing God' and you're
repeating the mistakes of yesterday, where that particular brand was stamped on
just about anything that had a forward look to it. It also runs up against the
bit about God guiding us all our lives--maybe his real intent is for us to move
ahead, use the brains he gave us. Is flying playing God? Is putting up a dam to
slow down floods playing God? I don't see him complaining all that much about
those kind of things.
"Your beliefs and the restrictions you
place upon yourselves as a result, will change as you learn more and more about
yourself and your environment. What you believe at the present, by definition,
will always be incomplete."
"Yeah, I can see that happening, God.
But, eh, what would you call 'complete'?"
"Nice try, Harold. In time mankind will
know the answer to that, but it is you who must get you there."
"Without your guidance, God?"
"Do not confuse guidance with answers,
Harold. They are mutually exclusive. However, one can lead to the other."
"So you are guiding us?"
"In time, Harold, in time."
Guided or not, it still looks like much of
what we develop for ourselves is going to involve blood, toil tears and
sweat--I think Julius Caesar said that. Or maybe Elvis. Anyway, what it says
is, what we think we know today we're gonna have to think more about tomorrow.
And even more the day after that. No sweat on that, although I still think it's
taking too long to get the answers. Upsetting a heck of a lot of people along
the way too. Me, I'd rather get right to the last chapter, find out how the
plot ends--at least, I think I would; I gotta admit, the thought scares me
some.
All through recorded history we've had
"playing-God" guys saying we'll never do this or we'll never do
that--"man will never fly;" "nothing will ever replace the
horse;" "man will never walk on the moon." They're always wrong
but that doesn't stop them from coming up with yet another thing that "man
will never do." Some say we'll never learn to control the weather, but not
me. Even today we know how to make an Earth out of Mars--terraforming, they
call it. With today's technology, it would take hundreds of years and cost more
money than we want to spend, but it is possible to coax water and an atmosphere
(and thus weather) out of Martian rocks, make it look like an early Earth. Someday
this terraforming will be faster and cheaper and then I think we're going to do
it. And I don't think that's playing the big guy or anything like that. I don't
even think he'll be pissed at us for giving it a try.
"Depends on what you make of it, Harold."
"Eh, good point, God. I'll tell the
others--I mean, if you let me live long enough."
"You want me to keep you alive for three
hundred years?"
"Well, I'm hoping it'll take less than
that as we learn more about how to do it."
"Then you only want me to keep you alive
for an additional hundred years?"
"Well, to be honest, God, it's a little
scary putting a time limit on this, my life, I mean. Couldn't we sorta play it
by ear?"
"Don't tempt me, Harold."
Anyway, we now know about the Milky Way galaxy,
and how we're just a tiny speck way out on one of its spiral arms--hardly the
center of anything. And that there are billions of other galaxies, each one
with billions of suns and maybe tens of billions of planets as well. That means
the funny-eyes guys who wanted to kill Galileo for stating the facts can no
longer hold their heads up--well, they can't anyway; they're dead, but if they
were alive, even the funny-eyes guys of today would laugh at them. Wouldn't
stop them from coming up with stuff that others are going to laugh about
tomorrow, though.
I figured this would be a good one to lay on
God next.
"Hey, God, I read where all of this is
for the benefit of mankind. Is that true?"
"All of what?"
"All of this. The universe, the animals,
the galaxies bumping into one another, everything."
"I think that what you would really like
to do, Harold, is tell me what you think."
"Well, I wouldn't mind a second
opinion."
"Harold?"
"Yeah, well the way I figure it, with
everything that we now know is out there, and with so much more that we're
pretty sure we're gonna find out about later on--which, hopefully, won't take
another ten thousand years..."
"Harold!"
"Well, what I'm wondering is, how can we
believe this is all for us? How can we see galaxies crashing into each other
billions of light years away and think that it's all for us?"
"Who said it was?"
"Well, we did. I mean, we sorta got
together and decided that we're king of the hill, that everything else is
secondary, put there just for the magnificent us."
"One more assumption you imagine to be
true?"
"That's my point! We make up these things
and think because we see a lot of heads nodding in agreement, that it can't be
wrong."
"As I say, Harold, human nature."
"Yeah, but if it no longer makes sense,
why hold onto it? I mean, we now know a lot more about what the universe is
about. We found a hint of life on Mars, on one of the moons of Jupiter and even
in a little crater on our own moon (they discovered ice in a spot that the sun
never touches). That's a lot of hits in our solar system alone, God. And there
are a billion, billion solar systems out there."
"Really, Harold?"
"Ha! I guess I'm not telling you
anything. But that's a good point, God. Couldn't you ... eh ... let me in on
what's out there, what kind of life, I mean?"
"In time, Harold. In time."
"Yeah, but what if some space guys pop
down out of the sky and tell us we got it all wrong, that the truth is it was
all put there for them, including us--can happen any day, you know, God?"
"I am certainly glad you warned me of
that possibility, Harold."
"Ha again! Sorry, big guy; I wasn't
thinking. But shouldn't we prepare ourselves? I mean, a little hint from you
and we can do something about it."
"Like what?"
"Well, like... Good question; I don't
know what we'd do. Maybe we'd smarten up a little, be in better shape to greet
them; that wouldn't hurt."
"No, Harold, that wouldn't hurt."
"Well anyway, what kind of sense does it
make to say its all for us? Take the dinosaurs, for example. We never even got
to meet them; how can they be for us?"
"A failed experiment?"
"Yeah, well they say that's not possible,
that you can't fail."
"But 'they' also say it all leads to you,
including dinosaurs that were gone millions of years before your species
began."
"Yeah, God, but I figure they're wrong
about that."
"Now why doesn't that surprise me!"
"Aw, you're just putting me on. How could
it surprise you, you being God and all?"
"Figure of speech, Harold. Go on."
"Well, I figure it couldn't be. When the
dinosaurs died we looked like mice, and that runs up against that in-your-image
thing."
"You make no mention of humility, Harold.
Or in this case, the absence thereof."
"You mean that we just proclaimed
ourselves to be the reason for everything?"
"Don't you see a certain arrogance in
that?"
"I do, God, but I don't know many guys
who would agree with me."
"Does being a minority of one disturb
you?"
"Well, it makes me lonely
sometimes."
"Do you think it also makes you
wrong?"
"Does it, God?"
"How many people believed the world was
round before Columbus? Close to one hundred percent--I do remember such things,
you know."
"Boy don't I know that. You'd be a great
one to have on Jeopardy."
"And how much of Earth's population can
any one faith claim?"
"I don't exactly follow that, God."
"Your own words, Harold. You state that
the world as a whole is not in agreement with any one religion. But it goes
beyond that; no single religion commands even a majority of the world's
population. Thus regardless of the belief, more people disagree than agree.
Even if that were not the case, even if one did have a majority, and even if
that voice represented ninety-nine point nine percent of the entire human race,
would that make them right?"
"I can see them hitching up their belts,
puffing out their chests, throwing smug smiles at each other and saying, 'it
sure as hell does.'"
"Well it sure as hell does not, Harold,
any more than the ninety-nine point nine percent who were absolutely certain
Columbus was wrong--or are you still inclined to regard the world as
flat?"
"You're saying numbers don't count,
God?"
"Sometimes they do, Harold. In this case,
they do not. Truth is truth, regardless of how many people see it or fail to
see it."
"I saw a movie once where a priest tried
to prove his point by asking a non-believing scientist, 'Do you think 95% of
the world is delusional'?"
"The '95%' is no argument at all, any
more than it was with Columbus--the numbers thing again. Beyond that, the
statement assumes this 95% to be in agreement with one another. Is a Christian
in agreement with a Jew? Is a Buddhist in agreement with a Moslem? Surrendering
to the definition inferred by the question, wouldn't any one of these groups
consider all the others 'delusional'?"
"I hear you, God. I just wish all of us,
regardless of what we believe at the moment, knew more of what the truth
was."
"It would make for a dull world,
Harold."
"I could use a little 'dull' right now,
God. I gotta tell you, I'm getting tired."
(sigh) "I am too, Harold. I am too."
I didn't know what he meant by that, but I
accepted it as a sign that he wanted to call it a night. So I woke up, by
myself this time. I hope he wasn't insulted or anything. You know, like he
thought I was cutting him off. I made a mental note to set him straight
tomorrow night. If he's still there, that is.
TWELVE:
Are you mad
at us for inventing it?
He was, but I gotta tell you I spent a lot of
time worrying about that. I was really getting to like these nightly sessions
and I didn't know what I'd do if the big guy cut them short. I figured we were
getting to be real buddies, even if he had to remind me from time to time that
it wasn't exactly on an equal footing.
Recalling how serious we both were the
previous night, I decided to start with something light.
"Hey, God, about this virgin birth
thing."
(sigh)
"Well, I figured it out. Where it came
from, I mean."
"Oh, do tell me, Harold."
"Hey, no sweat, God, I like doing this. I
mean, I was thinking after our talk last night about you and me being some kind
of buddies."
"Buddies?"
"Yeah, everybody needs someone to talk
to. You know, someone who can challenge you, keep you on your celestial
toes."
"Are you applying for the job,
Harold?"
"Hey, who better--just kidding,
God."
(sigh)
"But anyway, this virgin birth thing, I
read about how it might have come about."
"And you don't think I know."
"Well, maybe not this version. You see,
it's not exactly something they sing about in church."
"Go on, Harold."
"Well the ancient Jews used to require
that a newly married couple stay away from knookie for the first year or so, to
show how pious they were, I guess."
"And when the girl became pregnant, the
elders would throw up their hands and say, 'must be a virgin birth.' I heard
that one, Harold."
"Well, don't you think it's funny,
God?"
(sigh) "There is humor in the way it is
put."
"Yeah, I hear you. I guess you don't get
to listen to many jokes--there was a priest and a rabbi, that kind of stuff.
Well, I guess you listen, but you get to the punch line faster than the guy
who's telling it."
"Partying is not my thing, Harold."
"Well, let me try this: I went to a
wedding once where your guy says you led the bride and the groom through their
entire lives to this magic moment. And he said this even though it was the
second marriage for both of them--I gotta believe the same thing was said by
the priest's colleagues at the first marriage ceremonies. Me I think you should
singe his butt for suggesting you would lead a person through his whole life
just to have him arrive at a bad marriage."
"Now that is funny, Harold."
"Yeah? To be honest, God, I wasn't sure
you were going to see the humor."
"I believe you know the word, 'sarcasm,'
Harold?"
"Oh, yeah. Sorry, God. But I got a lot of
that kind of thing going."
"Which you feel compelled to relate to
me?"
"Hey, I got no need to be 'compelled.' I
figure you want to know. And I figure you want to help me understand."
"My life's dream, Harold."
"Come again, God?"
"More God sarcasm, Harold."
"Oh, yeah, sure. Okay, how's this one?
When people see something they can't explain, like the Hubble telescope telling
us the lights of the universe probably turned on all at once, they say that
proves it was God's doing; you know, the 'let there be light' thing?"
"I'm vaguely familiar with the phrase,
Harold."
"Yeah, right. You're the guy that said
it."
(sigh) "Go on, Harold."
"Well, maybe hundreds of years from now,
when we finally find out the truth about how and why it happened that way, the
clones of these people are gonna shrug as if it's no big deal then go right on
making the same kind of claims."
"What is your question, Harold?"
"Well, why don't you make people like
that learn from the mistakes of the past? I mean, as near as I can figure,
they've always been wrong. Eventually we find a good solid reason for
everything, and it never has anything to do with religion."
"It goes back to what people want to
believe, Harold. If facts fly in the face of these beliefs, they alter or
abandon the facts. I have seen you do the same."
"Me, God?"
"You, Harold."
"Well, I can't remember doing anything
like that, God--not that I would doubt you or anything. I mean, I try to call
things as I see them."
"The key words there, Harold, are 'as you
see them.' You place interpretations on matters that differ from what others
place on the same matter. Are they correct or are you correct? And if ten
people are faced with the same matter and make the same attempt to reason it
out, do you doubt that ten separate interpretations--perhaps all of them
sincere--could come of it? Truth is as one sees it, Harold, as one wishes it to
be."
"But then, who is wrong?"
"That person is wrong who acts against
his conscience, who does what in his heart he knows is less than
credible."
"I've seen a lot of that, God. Guys
laying it onto gullible believers, making them think they're some kind of evil
if they don't cough up enough money."
"But what you do not know is what that
'funny-eyed' person admits to his subconscious those few times that it breaks
through to him. He may, on the surface, see himself only in the best light, but
at night when he cannot sleep and when disturbing thoughts keep racing through
his head whether he wishes this or not, for a brief moment only he might see
himself as others see him, as I see him. If he ignores this, I would then
regard him as ... less than credible."
"Like the minister guys who say you want
them to have a big house or a big car."
"Less than credible."
I liked what I was hearing; it gave me hope. I
realized once again that God was giving me more answers than I realized he was
giving (that may not sound so good, but you know what I mean).
I knew he wanted me to think about that 'less
than credible' thing, but even so, it was hard to put aside the resentment I
felt. I mean, I've heard so many things that haven't been thought through; I
mean, really thought through. Look at the case of the biggies in the Christian
religion who used to insist that genesis began at 4004 BC. I mean, this was
required belief--they'd do nasty things to you if you said you disagreed. I
always assumed they really believed that this was true, but whether they did or
not is less important than the fact that they were dead wrong. And if they were
so absolutely sure of this yet were so absolutely wrong, why should I believe
them now? I mean, they present today's "undeniable truths" as
vigorously as they presented yesterday's "undeniable truths"--doesn't
that qualify for "less than credible?" Me, I think God should get on
their cases, give them a front row seat to his flame-throwing act before they
add to what is already a big enough pile of human misery.
I wonder why we're so quick to believe what
came out of the past anyway. We wouldn't believe so quickly if it happened
today, not for a lot of it we wouldn't. Like you see a guy stabbing his kid to
death today, you're not going to let him get away with saying "God told me
to do it; he was testing my loyalty." Heck no; you're gonna toss him in
the nut hatch.
We put a heck of a lot of stock in a time when
mankind was highly superstitious and badly informed. I mean, those guys were
far-out in some of the things they believed. How can we accept as truth
anything that came out of that period, let alone base the future of mankind on
it?
"You can not ignore all of the past,
Harold."
"Well, maybe not, God, but couldn't we be
more selective? I mean, couldn't we go for more than 'hope' in what we embrace
from those times?"
"Hope is a powerful motivator, Harold.
Would you want mankind to be without it? Would you want to be without it?"
"Yeah, I hear you, God. I just got a
problem associating all that with truth. Some guys seize on hope as a
substitute for truth, as if wanting something bad enough makes it true."
"That statement is valid as you put it,
Harold, but it hints at you being the arbiter of truth. You are not. None of
you are."
"But I would like to be, God. I mean,
that's what I'm hoping to get out of these sessions."
"'Hoping', Harold."
"Well, maybe that's a bad choice of
words, God, but I gotta say, I'll be the first to give up my old beliefs and
grab hold of the new if you'll just tell me what that 'new' should be."
"Better put, Harold, but my answer in
this is the same as the one I gave you on a previous occasion. Truth to humans
is relative and fleeting. To fill you with truth now would be like filling a
sieve with water--a frustrating experience at best. Better is to wait until you
as a species are able to contain it."
"When will that be, God?"
"The 'when' is completely up to you,
Harold."
"More stuff I gotta think through,
right?"
"You got it, Harold."
I know what he's saying, that we're stuck with
what we are, at least for awhile, but even so, I think some of us are too far
out of touch with the times. They gotta be holding back the "when"
that God was talking about. Like the heavy believers who see other heavy
believers bleeding out of their hands and feet at Easter time. Most of the
high-ranking Christians understand this to be a mental condition--spontaneous
emission, psychosomatic something or other--but there are a lot of people out
there who still accept this as proof of something. Like of all the ways God has
of communicating with us, he chooses bleeding hands and feet. I mean, that says
Radio Shack is more up to date than the big guy.
"They are comfortable in their beliefs,
Harold. Why can't you just accept that?"
"Well, God, I think the guy doing the
bleeding needs help. I mean, the kind of help you get from a shrink."
"Your opinion, Harold, not theirs."
"But who's right?"
"Is being right so important?"
There was another message there that my buddy,
God, was trying to get through to me. I knew this, and it was enough to get me
to zip up my lip--at least for the moment. I guess "being right" is
an ego thing, and me trying to attach nobility to it is hypocritical at best. I
wind up being as questionable as the guys I've been complaining about.
Still, I can't believe these heavy believers
really think the bleeding hands and feet stuff carries much weight among Jews,
Moslems, Buddhists, Hindus or any other of the world's many religions. Or even
among most Christians, for that matter.
As you can see by what follows, I had trouble
conceding the point:
"You know, God, even when everybody knows
the real skinny of something, they still practice something else. Like
celebrating Christ's birthday on December 25 even though a lot of religious
scholars think he was born in July or August."
"Time of the winter solstice, Harold.
There was already a celebration around that time, and the Christians of the day
felt it appropriate to attach their own celebration to it. Makes sense when you
think about it."
"But doesn't it matter that the
celebration they were attaching themselves to was a pagan one?"
"No, Harold, it does not. Not for what I
just said. Besides, pagan to whom? Certainly not to the people engaged in the
practice of whatever religion you choose to label as 'pagan.'"
"Pagan meaning nobody believes that stuff
anymore."
"Not exactly true, but that has little
relevance to anything. It presses you up against that numbers thing again: The
number of people believing in something--or no longer believing in
something--has no bearing on whether that something has truth attached to
it."
"Okay, but my initial point was, they
know the truth but they're still pushing the wrong date."
"When you in America celebrate
President's Day, are you saying that this is the day when all former United
States presidents were born? Of course not; you have singled out this day for
reasons of convenience. What is so wrong with Christians doing the same
thing?"
"So they're right in what they do?"
"Put that question to a Hindu or to a
Moslem. No, I am not addressing validity of belief at all. I am explaining
behavior, human behavior. What you people believe and how you carry out these
beliefs is up to you."
"Even if we're wrong?"
"Even if you're wrong."
I knew he was right, but it still got to me. I
mean, what good is believing in anything if you don't know the real skinny and
there's a better than reasonable chance that you're wrong?
I don't know, maybe I see too much conflict
out there, too much that people are trying to hide from themselves or cover
over with convenient words that by unspoken agreement they elect not to
question.
I'm not saying these people are hypocritical
or anything like that, just that they don't listen to their own words. At least
they don't think them through. A while back I heard a friend make an
unflattering remark about "idol worshipers" while he was on his knees
talking to a statue hanging on the wall. And another guy spoke of how the early
Christians waited a bunch of years before putting the gospel down in writing,
this because they wanted to be really, really sure of their facts. Me, I saw in
that the old problem of whispering down the lane. You know, where a bunch of
people are in a circle and one guy whispers a joke to the guy on his right, who
then whispers the same joke to the guy on his right and so on. When finally it
gets around to the guy who told it, it isn't even close to being the same joke.
I thought that might be a good one to spring
on God. He likes a good challenge.
"Madison Avenue approach, Harold. You
take your biggest disadvantage and advertise it as an advantage. Remember the
old Listerine commercials: 'If is doesn't taste bad, how do you know it's
working'?"
He frowned as he said that, so I figured he
must've tasted the stuff at least once. Either that or he was reminded of how
silly we humans can be at times.
Anyway, it didn't prove to be much of a
challenge to him.
But it did get me to thinking that he was
tiring of my questions, so I cut the list down even more. Problem is, every
time I do that, it leaves a gap in my hopes (maybe I should say
"expectations)." I mean, it's one more thing I know I'll never get
the answer to. But then, if I get to the point where I wear out my welcome, what
answers would I get then? I'd have to go back to the guys with the funny eyes
and smile like I'm buying what they say. God, I hate the thought of doing that!
"Were you talking to me, Harold?"
"Huh? Oh yeah, I guess I was. Sorta,
anyway."
"I understand, Harold. And now you have a
question about black holes."
"Hey, you're really good at that
mind-reading stuff. Well, what I was wondering was whether you have to watch
out for black holes as you make your rounds of the cosmos checking up on things?
You know even light gets sucked into black holes."
"The gravitational pull of 'black holes'
is of no concern to me, Harold."
"Really? But doesn't that say you're
lighter than light? I mean, light has mass so it gets pulled into the black
hole. If you don't get pulled in, then you gotta have less mass than light. And
then I gotta wonder how something with so little mass can create all this
mass."
"Boggles the mind, doesn't it,
Harold?"
"Boy, you got that right. You ever going
to tell us how you do that, God?"
"When you are capable of understanding
it, perhaps."
"You don't think I'm there now?"
"Your sense of humor is poking through
again, Harold."
"Eh, yeah, God, I see what you're saying.
At least I think I do. Well anyway, here's another one for you. Why didn't you
make our bodies so all the parts wear out evenly? I mean, my prostate is
quitting more each day; just talking about it makes me want to head for the
john--eh, you have johns up here, God?"
"You went from black holes to this?"
"One sorta reminds me of the other."
(sigh)
"It also reminds me of everyday people,
which reminds me of how many of them there are. Everybody says only you can
create children, but I think you got some of your supervisors going here. I
mean, you gotta get these guys talking to each other, God, they're creating too
many of them! And it's out of proportion to anything that makes sense--too many
kids going to people who can't manage the kids they got; whole countries,
usually poor countries where kids are already piling up like lemmings, getting
hit hard, really hard. It makes for a whole lot of misery, God."
"When there are more floods than you wish
to endure, what do you do?"
"You mean build a dam?"
"Precisely. If this is, as you suggest, a
flood, you have the means to do something about it."
"You're saying it's not the fault of your
supervisors? That you're sorta goading us into action?"
"Reflect on it for a time, Harold."
"Yeah, that's cool, God. But it would be
so much easier if we had a little of the old clarification going here. I mean,
there's a whole pile of thought on this subject and a whole lot of
disagreement, some of it pretty violent. As long as it goes on, the problem's
going to get worse."
"Once again, Harold: It is all up to
you."
(sigh) Well, we are learning more about how
the thing works, this life creation process, I mean. Today we have science that
allows us to connect sperm to an egg in a test tube--if we do it, we get a
baby; if we don't we don't. Is that how you go about it?"
"Except for the test tube. That is your
invention."
"Well, are you mad at us for inventing
it?"
"It depends on what use you make of it,
Harold."
"Yeah, well they say children are a gift
from you, God, that we should just wait around and see what you want to do
about it."
"What do you think, Harold."
"Well, I think they got it wrong, God. I
mean, I can't see you running down to some city slum and making a little
thirteen-year-old girl pregnant. I mean, why would you do such a thing--yeah, I
know what they say about you working in mysterious ways, but me, I think that's
just backfilling, something people lean on when they run out of argument."
"When faced with logic such as yours, you
mean."
"Well, I gotta admit, God, it sounds
pretty good to me. But I think a few guidelines from you would keep people from
going off the deep end in your name."
"Form your own guidelines, Harold. In
time you will know my reaction to them."
"Yeah, well, that's a little risky, God.
Scary even, if you know what I mean."
"Harold, you are too wrapped up in this
'burn your butt' thing. Spend more time in thinking and less in
believing."
"I'll have to think about that one,
God."
"Touché, Harold. Your next point, please."
"Eh sure, God. It's related; it's about
abortions. You talk about scary; even I feel sorry for the funny-eyes guys on
this. I mean, they're scared to death about what you might think here. Some of
them are ready to kill to prove they're more right-to-life than the next
guy."
"And the opposing side has no such
inclinations?"
"Well, maybe we got crazies on both
sides, God. But..."
"'Maybe,' Harold?"
"Yeah, well I guess there are a few who
argue the point because they don't like the guys arguing the other side,
but..."
"But you don't regard such people in
quite the same light as you do the 'right-to-lifers'?"
"Hey, I don't like any kind of crazies;
doesn't matter what side they're on. But that's exactly my point. These
guys--okay, on both sides--are coming down on each other harder and harder
every day. It's only a matter of time before they start inflicting pain on
innocent people just to demonstrate how much better their point of view is than
the other guy's. They, and the rest of us, could use a little help here, God.
Help from you. You know, give us the real skinny; let us know how you see it.
There are a lot of people who don't deserve the hardship they're getting on
this, God."
"The dam analogy again, Harold. Why not
assume that the rapid growth of the world's population is a flood, put there by
me to provoke your collective minds into devising a solution?"
"Or solutions? More than one, I
mean?"
"That is for you to decide, Harold."
"I gotta tell you, God, a dam is a lot
easier to bring about."
"Life is not easy, Harold."
"Hey, tell me about it. But on this
subject, whenever somebody comes up with a plan, other people jump all over
it."
"To them, it is not a good plan."
"That's my point, God. With so many
people already here, and so many more on the way, even if we do something
modest to slow it down, there's going to be somebody somewhere who will find
what we do offensive. And, if the result is that we always back down, nothing will
ever get done. We'll have to wait for a major disease, or a mass starvation, or
a gigantic war, something that will squash enough of us to give the others a
little breathing room."
"An act of me?"
"Hey, no offense, but we sure as heck
can't count on anyone from Earth. There aren't any leaders down here, God. At
least nobody who's willing to risk his popularity or his job. We need the big
guy--you--to sort it out. I mean, it wouldn't take much of your time--you could
take Sundays off. And we'd give you all the help we could. Money too, if you're
a little short--heck, we'll just add it to the deficit."
He smiled at that last part, but I wasn't sure
what it meant. Probably meant the same thing he's been saying all along, that
he wants us to figure it out for ourselves.
The problem I have with that is it says me and
my Earth buddies are in for a painful ride, maybe even a fatal one, fatal for
all of us as more and more people are chasing less and less resources--those
who don't get them aren't going to like those who do. You look back in history
and you see a lot of cases of the have-nots wreaking havoc on the haves once
they get big enough or mad enough to do it. It never helps anything or anybody,
but they don't think about that when they're hurting. A lot of them aren't all
that smart; they're easily led by others. I mean, if they knew more, they might
not be one of the have-nots.
That's another thing to ask the big guy. I
mean, why he doesn't educate humanity a lot more. It would keep them from coming
up with back-yard opinions on how to solve the world's problems.
"I'll start with you, Harold."
Ha! At least I think he meant that as a joke.
Anyway, speaking of back-yard opinions, somebody once suggested we use the
excess population of the world to colonize space. I jumped all over that,
thinking it was a really good idea, but then another somebody pointed out that
the numbers don't jive. He said, if you had giant spaceships, each able to
carrying ten thousand people, and you launched one of these spaceships every
hour of every day of every year, you would not even be able to keep up with the
increase in the world's population. Not exactly a great solution, and
definitely not something we're about to go out and do. I mean, we're a long way
from being able to send up even one of those things--even if we knew where to
send it. And long before we find out how to colonize space, the population of
the world will be such that we'll be left with standing room only. There won't
even be enough space left to build the ships.
Thinking back on the smile God gave me when we
parted, there was a lot of sadness attached to it. Trying to understand what
that meant keep me up the rest of the night.
THIRTEEN:
You ever
bet on a football game?
"Hey, God, I got one on sports. But first
I gotta ask you a question. And I don't mean any offense by it."
"Now, how could I ever think that of you,
Harold?"
"Yeah, I guess I do get a little close
now and then. But this one I think is okay: Do you ever bet on a football
game?"
"What?!"
"Hey, I don't think you do, God, I'm just
demonstrating my point."
(sigh) "Go on, Harold."
"And I gotta assume you don't cheat,
giving one side an advantage over the other."
"Cheat, Harold?!"
"Like I said, God, just leading up to my
point."
"How much more 'leading up' are you
intending, Harold? I'm feeling a need for rest again."
"Yeah, I hear you, God. I mean, It has
been a long night and all. And we have been shooting a lotta challenges at each
other."
(sigh)
"Well, here's my point. A guy runs down
the field and scores a touchdown, then he kneels down to thank you. In doing
that, isn't he saying you pulled a little strings there. And if he thinks
that's true, why don't the referees think the same thing? I mean, they should
throw a flag or something."
"Unsportsmanlike conduct or aiding and
abetting?"
"Ha! But you get the point, right? I
mean, the guy's being insulting to you personally; he's saying you're rigging
the game. Why don't you zap his tail for that?"
"Harold, if I 'zapped tails' as many
times as you suggest, I would run out of lightning bolts. The person you use as
an example could be thanking me for helping him to do his best."
"But if you don't at the same time help
everyone on the opposing team to do his best, that team would be at a
disadvantage, a disadvantage they couldn't begin to overcome. That's cheating,
God, and I don't think you would do that."
"Harold, why can't you accept that this
person is merely feeling the moment, and that this feeling prevents him from
thinking it through? Let him have his moment; what harm can it do?"
"I guess the harm is what it does to
others, God. I look at it and I get upset. I just know the majority of people
out there are gobbling it up, saying stuff like, 'gee, isn't that nice? He's a
good God-fearing person.'"
"And that bothers you?"
"Yeah, God, I gotta admit it does. I
mean, that's what brought on these nightly sessions. I don't like being so much
in the minority, but I'm tired of having to go along with people who come up
with stuff they don't think through. People who, because they got so many
others agreeing with them, just naturally believe they can't be wrong. If I
even hint that they got their head in the sand, they just look at me with
know-it-all smiles that say, 'Poor Harold; he just doesn't see things the right
way, the way we see them.'"
"I hear you, Harold. But this is life;
this is the nature of humanity. People see safety in numbers. Comfort as
well."
"But if only I knew the real skinny, I
could smile back, make them feel like they've been making me feel all these
years."
"A little revenge?"
"Not that ... well, maybe a little ...
yeah, I guess so. But you don't know how it makes me feel when empty-headed
people laugh at me."
"I don't?"
"Well, maybe you do. But they sure as
hell don't."
"You would rather laugh at them."
"Well, it's kinda my turn, God."
"It is not a matter of 'turns,' Harold,
but I do know how you feel. It is seldom pleasant to be in the minority, and it
becomes a serious conflict when the majority opinion is not one to which you
can easily relate, even to keep the peace."
"It happens so often to me, God, people
speaking without thinking, others praising them for it and me having to grin
and bear it."
A little while ago, I heard of a young couple
who spent a lot of time and money getting pregnant, mainly by using man-made
chemicals that would release more of the lady's eggs. When she got more kids
than she bargained for, which everybody knows is a side effect of the
chemicals, she and her husband lifted their eyes to the sky and praised God for
this 'miracle.' Then, when the doctors warned them that there were too many
little babies in there, they said they would leave whatever happened up to
God--who were they leaving it up to when they couldn't get pregnant? Wasn't it
their choice to take the fertility chemicals? Then, and this gets to me more
than anything, they praised God for delivering them all safely even though
there were a bunch of hard working professionals there to make it happen--what
kind of fair is it to rob these people of the credit when they broke their
butts to get where they are then broke them again to increase the odds for
these premature kids?
"Irrational exuberance, Harold?"
"Was that you who said that, God? I like
it!"
"Harold, In their minds, they do no
wrong. Quite the contrary, they view themselves as more pure than the next
person."
"But it's a dangerous and confused world
down there, God. It only makes things worse when people speak out without
thinking through what they're saying. I mean about anything: religion,
politics, anything. Look at the Jonestown group. And those people who tried to
piggyback a comet by killing themselves. Wouldn't it make better sense to go
for truth rather than 'no wrong'?"
"I say again, Harold: the truth you seek
does not exist. There are only fragments of truth accidentally arrived at as
one brushes from belief to belief, opinion to opinion. There are humans who
carry this to extreme, and for that I apologize to you and to whomever else
might feel negatively affected by their weakness, but there is no magic wand I
can wave to make it all go away, to make your world as neat and as unencumbered
as you would have it be."
(sigh) "I hear you, God, but I gotta tell
you, I'm not too happy with that."
"I did not expect you would be,
Harold."
FOURTEEN:
You okay
with all this 'begetting' stuff?
The next day was not a pleasant one for me. I
felt like I had a hangover, which I guess I did since I started off the day
with a couple of beers. I don't know why I did that, except I was a little down
and felt the need for a boost. Here I was looking for answers and the biggest
answer of all--to what all this means--was shaping up to be something I would
never hear.
I needed answers, the world needs answers, but
what we get instead is more and more people coming up with more and more
opinions, some of them really far-out. The number of religions on our little
planet is growing, and the people who run them aren't getting any friendlier in
how they express themselves.
I think God agrees with me about a lot of
things, but in this he won't budge. I mean, he won't fill in the blanks and in
doing so tell us how we can put aside all the peripheral noise and make the
world work for us. Even after all these nights, I don't know any more than
anybody else.
Yeah, but I do have an advantage: I'm honest
with myself, at least in one respect. Unlike some people I know, my frustration
has not lead me to see answers where there aren't any. Like in a sky that's
gone wild, or in a violent earthquake that makes a guy feel small and
vulnerable and lonely, or in creatures that do funny things at times making it
easy to believe somebody is trying to tell us something.
But what good does it do me; what do I get out
of being honest with myself? I'm still doing battle, at least in the privacy of
my thoughts. And with the world's problems growing rather than shrinking, I'm
still as miserable as I ever was.
Whenever I get to feeling this way I begin to
retreat back into my shell, tell myself it's better to just go along, accept
what I can't change. But I'm tired of doing that. Tired of picking on myself,
holding back thoughts that have been fighting for years for a breath of fresh
air. Anyway, I don't want to be that kind of person, not any more. I don't want
to be seen as accepting something as true just because I and all my friends and
neighbors want it to be true. That just leaves me with a sour gut and weakens
whatever faith I got left.
I felt better by the time I went to bed. I was
so tired by then, emotionally as well as physically, that I fell asleep before
my eyes were fully closed."
"You are early tonight, Harold."
"Hey, sorry about that, God. I know how
it feels when guests arrive early for a party. You want me to come back
later?"
(sigh) "Are you feeling better?"
"Oh, you know about that, huh? Yeah, I
guess you would. Well, I'm having trouble getting things all neatened up in my
mind. You know, the way I'd like to."
"More doubts?"
"Well, questions at least ... yeah, I
guess there are doubts in there too. I just can't see things getting better for
me or for anybody else. I see us humans continuing on the way we are until the
worst of us get so much in control that life won't be worth living
anymore."
"My, you are down on yourself tonight."
"Well, I didn't mean to unload on you,
God. I know you got troubles of your own. I guess I'm one of them."
"Yes, Harold, you are. But then, so are
the rest of you. And with regard to the rest of you, do you suppose for a
moment that there are not others with similar complaints, others who are as
confused as you profess to be?"
"Well, I'd sure like to meet some of
them, God. Most of the people I bump into have a lot of faith but not much in
the way of ideas."
"Faith in weakly supported ideas has
little value, Harold."
"Amen to that, God! Like the guys who
give up everything to join some way-out cult. I mean everything, including
their self respect--they don't only give up their money, they give up their
wives and daughters as well. 'If this guy says do it, that's good enough for
me!' Great thing, faith!"
"I'm pleased to see you succumbing to it,
Harold."
"Ha! You're just saying that to cheer me
up, God."
"Did it work?"
(sigh) "A little, I guess. Anyway,
knowing we can't prove what we believe should make us more responsible when we
try to paint pictures in other people's heads."
"That makes the assumption that the
people you speak of are irresponsible. And that they are aware of this. That is
cynical at worst and naive at best--you should consider that, to them, you may
be the one who is irresponsible."
"Me, God?"
"Yes, Harold, you. If they believe what
they say, and it is likely that most of them are not willing nor able to
believe anything other than that, then to them you are simply misguided,
stubborn, ignorant, or all of the above. In that respect, they are being honest
and consistent and you are being irresponsible."
"If both of us are 'honest and
consistent,' which one is right?"
"You are in your mind and they are in
theirs."
"I don't follow, God."
"It is what I have been saying all along:
truth is illusive. Even when you have it, you cannot be sure what it is you
have. Nor will others necessarily recognize what you have as truth."
"So what good is it?"
"Exactly."
"Huh?"
"Have you any more questions,
Harold?"
"But..."
"Is that a no?"
"No. I mean yes. That is, yes I have more
questions."
"May I hear one?"
(sigh) "Okay, God. I guess that's one
more thing you want me to think about, right?"
"Harold?"
"Yeah, well how about ... eh,
taboos?"
"Forbidden fruit?"
"Something like that. I'm talking about
things that are forbidden to different religions--not the same to everyone,
which is another thing I gotta question. If you're saying we shouldn't touch
something, seems to me that would apply to everybody, not just to people of one
religion."
"Seems to you?"
"Well maybe I should make that a
question. Why is pork so bad to one religion and not to another? And, at one
time, fish not allowed on Fridays for one religion and not another? And sex so
bad to a whole bunch of religions--except Astarte, of course; she's pretty cool
about that."
"It is you who come up with these taboos,
Harold. As you are disposed to encourage others to think things through, I
suggest you think this through as well. Where and why each such taboo
developed, why some were born of logic and sensibility, such as the avoidance
of food in which there was a better than reasonable chance of contacting a
disease."
"Pork?"
"Among others."
"How about sex? I mean, the 'begetting'
stuff we got going from time to time? You know, a lot of that happened in your
day too, God."
"Really, Harold?"
"Hey, it's right there in your
book."
(sigh)
"Yeah, well I figured you were pretty hot
on that subject once."
"Hot?"
"Hey, I didn't mean it that way. I meant
angry, that kind of thing. Like what you did to Sodom and Gracie."
"Gomorra. And you must practice caution
when you attribute such things to me. Seizing on your comments of a few nights
back, think of the times; think of the mindset of those who lived in those
times, the level of superstition that existed then versus now. From all
religions come legends, Harold. If you make them more than that, you do so only
to satisfy a personal need to believe."
FIFTEEN:
If there's
only enough food on the table for one,
do the
others have to say grace?
We went on a while longer, but I didn't
wrestle any more specifics out of my buddy, God. At least not as many as I
wanted to--I know he continues to leak answers out, even if I can't figure out
what they are. Funny thing, though: as I lay in bed the next morning thinking
about it like I know he wants me to, what came to mind first was how come, in
all the nights we've been getting together, I didn't have to excuse myself once
to visit the john. I mean, my prostate is older than me--at least it acts like
it is--and it just isn't like me to go through an entire night without running
for the bathroom at least once. You know, I spent a good half hour trying to
remember whether I felt the need during our chat, and if so, how I got that
little problem solved. I just hope I didn't embarrass myself.
I wonder if that is a problem in heaven; God
never did answer my question about having johns nearby. I think they're there
though--you talk about old prostates; God's been around a really long time.
"How do you feel about people saying
grace, God?"
"That is praying, Harold, something you
said you don't believe in."
"Yeah, I know, but I was just wondering
your take on this particular kind of praying. I always thought of it as odd
that a guy would break his ... eh, back ... to put food on the table then thank
you for it."
"This relates to the football player
example, Harold. One fears food will not be as forthcoming the next time unless
one shows appreciation for what is present this time."
"Yeah okay, but to me, it's one of those
things that hasn't been thought through. I mean, they wouldn't dare blame you
when the food on the table isn't enough, right?"
"You tell me."
"Heck no, they wouldn't. I mean, they'd
be afraid to, even if they felt in the bottom of their gut that there was some
fairness to this--if they say it's you putting food on the table, then they
gotta say it's you keeping it off the table."
"We have already addressed this, Harold.
What appears on the table is a function of how good--or lucky--one is. In this
as well as in much of what we've been discussing, responsibility for one's life
rests with the individual himself."
"For better or for worse?"
"For better or for worse."
"Well, I guess that answers the other
question I had about that."
(sigh) "You're going to ask it anyway,
aren't you, Harold?"
"Well, what I was wondering was, if there
are two people at the table and there's only enough food for one, does the
other guy have to say grace?"
He didn't answer. He didn't even sigh like he
sometimes does. But then, in truth, I didn't phrase it as a question; I was
just making a joke, trying to cheer him up, get him away from all the heavy
subjects we've been tossing around the last few nights.
I could see by the rise and fall of the glow
that flows around him that he gets emotional about the subject of us; all of
us, I mean. You know how it is when you have a favorite toy that goes haywire
on you. On second thought, that's not such a good analogy. When you get tired
of fussing with a bad toy, you toss it onto the scrap heap.
SIXTEEN:
If there's
no limit to your powers,
why did you
have to rest on the seventh day?
"Eh, God, I got a few quickies you might
like to get out of the way."
"Good assumption."
"Huh?"
"Another God joke, Harold. Go on,
please."
"Well, the first one is just a thing I'm
curious about; it isn't Earthshaking like some of my other stuff."
"Go on, Harold."
"Well, we've been talking about you being
everywhere, which I assume means day or night, whenever and wherever one of us
is, you're there."
"Your point, Harold?"
"Well, when a guy goes to a house of
worship, he always gets dressed up (Do you have a dress code or are they just
guessing at that?)"
"Humans like to feel ... presentable ...
when they believe they are talking to me."
"Yeah, but you're there all the time,
when a guy's in the field, when he's working on the engine to his car, even
when he's in the john. So what's the difference? He has on an old tee-shirt,
then he decides to say something to you so he takes it off and puts on a clean
one--before deciding to hear someone, do you check out what he's wearing?"
"What are you wearing, Harold?"
"Eh, these are my pajamas, God."
"I'm talking to you, am I not?"
"Yeah, but it wasn't myself I was talking
about. I was trying to understand what goes through people's minds at special
times in their lives, like when they think they're coming to talk to you."
"What do you think before you and I get
together?"
"Hey, I really look forward to that, God.
I mean you and me are getting to be real buddies."
"No, I mean, do you prepare in any
way?"
"Well, I try to think of a really good
question. You know, something worthy of the moment."
"Then you write it down, correct?"
"Well, yeah."
"If I am always with you, why the need to
write it down? Are you not thinking at the time that your thoughts must be
delivered to me at a special time and at a special place, that otherwise they
will not be communicated?"
"I see your point, God."
"It is psychological, Harold. A believer
prefers to think in such a manner. He is often reluctant to consider that we
are together even at highly compromising moments, such as, in your example,
when he is in the john."
"Okay, I buy that. But how about
you?"
"Now it is I who do not follow you."
"I mean, do you get dressed up on the
Sabbath too?"
I think the glow around God flickered a little
at that, but I couldn't be sure. Sometimes he does that to make a point. Like
when he's mad, he glows brighter--I got to know how close I was to a burned
butt by the intensity of that glow. This time the light dimmed a little, which
I think means he's laughing.
"Okay, how about this one, God: If you
hadn't rested on the seventh day, what would have happened?"
"Come again, Harold?"
"Well, you built this huge universe in
six days then decided to take a day off--for a rest, your book says."
"It's nice to see you read it,
Harold."
"Hey, I liked it, God. A little violent
though, at least in parts."
(sigh)
"Like when you talked that guy into
knifing his kid, then stopped him at the last minute."
"Harold?"
"Yeah, God."
"We talked at length about thinking
things through. Think this through as well."
"I don't follow, God."
"Something that appeared in your thoughts
earlier: If you read a newspaper report about someone stabbing his child
because 'God told him to do it,' what would you think?"
"That he was a nutcase."
"Then why are you so willing to believe a
similar story from the past, a past in which superstition was the norm and
human knowledge was considerably less than it is today?"
"But it's in your book."
"Next question, Harold."
"But. Eh, okay, God, but I don't think I
finished the other one, the one about you resting."
"What about it?"
"If there's no limit to your powers, why
did you have to rest? What would have happened if you hadn't? I mean, would you
have had a heart attack or something?"
"Figure of speech, Harold."
"Like an 'expression'?"
"Something like that."
"Eh, that brings up an interesting point,
God: Do you get regular checkups? I'd hate to think of you running yourself
down. I mean, that universe out there, it still needs a lot of work: suns
exploding, galaxies bumping into each other, even the Earth is going to be
fried by the Sun one of these days if nothing's done about it. All that
activity is demanding on a body."
"A 'body,' Harold?"
"Well, since you mention it, that could
be another question, God. I mean, if you don't get sucked into black holes like
things with mass do, what are you made of?"
"Ideas, Harold."
"Huh?"
"Next question, please."
SEVENTEEN:
If
everything is preordained,
what do you
have to look forward to?
Ideas? Was he saying he represents all
religions, or that it's all in our heads? I can see problems in either. I mean,
how can he represent the many voodoo gods at the same time he represents the
Hindu and Buddhist concept of enlightenment? Or those who believe in Christ
versus those who are still waiting for the messiah?
If he's saying it's all in our heads, then how
did we get here?--yeah, I know how God would respond to that: "This is a
question, Harold, not an answer."
I think there's gotta be a third option,
something I haven't seen as yet, something he's been trying to tell me all
these nights.
"Are we ever destined to speak in one
voice, God?"
"Why would you want to, Harold?"
"Because we would then know the
truth."
"Would you?"
"Well, at least we wouldn't fight about
it."
"Not necessarily true. You might fight
about it even more than you do today. Only in a different way. The elite and
those who fall into step behind them, being unopposed, would persecute those
they come to regard as 'less devoted.' Reflect upon your human past, Harold:
whenever one of your religions achieved dominance, it resulted in hardship, not
only to those who resisted, but to the faithful as well. Untethered, religious
leaders methodically tighten the restraints which bind their flock, often to
the point where 'restraint' becomes 'sacrifice.' Not the sacrifice that
attempts to prove devotion by taking the life of an innocent animal, but one
that results in an Inquisition mentality. When that happens, religion becomes
one with politics, and those who show less than acceptable enthusiasm to an
increasingly elite religious leadership find themselves facing a new form of
holocaust."
"But those were primitive
religions."
"Are Christians primitive? Are Moslems?
But they--and so many others--have demonstrated this point at least once in
their past, and there is little doubt they would do so again if given the
chance. Besides, Harold, primitive is relative. To you a religion is
'primitive' simply because few, if any, follow it today. You fail to consider
that in its place are religions which will be considered 'primitive'
tomorrow--yours being the exception, of course."
"I don't know which one I am, God."
"That was God sarcasm, Harold."
"Oh yeah, sure. Pretty good too ... I
think. But you're saying we're damned no matter what we do."
"Again not true. Consider the state of
Earth's civilization today; compare it to a short two thousand years ago. While
you might not consider yourselves uniformly at peace with one another, there is
a growing recognition that human beings must learn to live together, that they
have no choice but to accommodate diversity of being and diversity of thought.
You have years to go and many obstacles to overcome, Harold, but you are on the
road to becoming civilized. The trick is to stay the course."
"How do we do that?"
"The how is up to you."
"I gotta tell you, God, that confuses me
some. I mean, you already know how it's going to come out."
"Do I?"
"Sure. It's all preordained."
"Your assumption, Harold."
"That's also in your book, God."
"Think it through, Harold."
"Yeah, well I hear you, God, even if I
don't know where that leaves me. I always did have a problem with that
preordained stuff. I mean, if everything is preordained and you knew what was
going to happen, what would you have to look forward to?"
"Good point, Harold."
"And knowing everything would take the
fun out of discovery."
"No doubt."
"Eh, is that more God sarcasm, God?"
"Call it food for thought, Harold. Do
with it what you wish."
I guess I don't believe in that preordained
stuff. Planned maybe, but not preordained. Preordained says God can't change
his mind and go some other way--I mean, if it's "written," then it's
written for him as well. If he does have the power to change his mind, then, by
definition, it's not written; the future is not preordained.
Besides, there's a contradiction in there: How
could God know everything if time never ends? No matter how far out in time he
looked, he'd always find a lot more that he hasn't seen yet--you can't see the
end of something that has no end. And if you can't see the end, that means you
can't know everything that's going to happen.
It occurred to me then that no matter how much
I tried at the start of our conversations, I couldn't keep the subject matter
light. God and me always got back to the heavy stuff, the stuff that leaves us
both depressed--I could tell by all those "sighs" that he was feeling
it too. But I figured it was him guiding me through this; I mean, he has the
power and all. I figured he knew I had to get it off my chest, get somebody
else to say what I've been saying all these years, that you gotta think it all
through. So far, I got more things to think through than I got answers, but I
figured that was the way he wanted it.
I decided to test my theory about not being
able to keep it light by coming out with something that couldn't be considered
anything but that.
"Is there a Mrs. God, God?"
"Harold!"
"You know, someone who does the laundry,
mends your wings, keeps your glow bright and shiny?"
"Harold?"
"Yeah, well it must get a little lonely,
God, what with all us inferior types and no one on your level to share a drink
with--I gotta wonder why you do it."
(sigh) "I sometimes wonder that myself,
Harold."
"Yeah? Maybe that's why we humans get
that way, God. Questioning things, I mean. Because we're so much like
you."
"Me forbid."
"Ha! It's good to see you can laugh about
it, God."
(sigh)
See what I mean? I start off with something
light and it quickly turns to heavy. I feel bad about maybe making the big guy
sad, but what can I do? I try; I really try. I just don't have a way with
words; they come out the wrong way, even if the big guy is guiding me, which he
won't say he is.
"How about politics, God"
"What about it?"
"Well is that a safe subject?"
"Safe?"
"Yeah. I was thinking of you. You know,
sparing your feelings."
"Thank you, Harold, but I can take care
of myself."
"Oh yeah, of course. I mean, you're God,
right?"
"Last time I looked."
"Yeah, great thing light, isn't it. I
mean, you couldn't have 'looked' before that."
"We covered that subject, Harold."
"Just 'lightening' things up a bit,
God."
(sigh)
"But now that you mention it, how are you
able to see yourself? Are there mirrors up here?"
(sigh)
"Yeah, well getting back to politics,
everywhere you go on Earth you got it: On the job, at home, even in places of
worship. Everybody's fighting to find a place for themselves, then fighting
some more to better it, usually at another guy's expense."
"And you wonder whether this is continued
in heaven."
"Well, if we're the same people, why
wouldn't it be?"
"You assume you are the same
people."
"If we aren't, then what's the sense of
being that kind of person to begin with? Why not skip the middle man and go
right to whatever we are when we're no longer us?"
"You mean skip life."
"Boy, I don't much like the sound of
that, but I guess it does makes sense. I mean, if you think it'll fly, I'll
give it my vote."
(sigh)
EIGHTEEN:
Do we gotta
stay children forever?
While we were on the subject of politics, I
asked him how, since everything that's wrong with the world is brought about by
humans, we could consider ourselves "precious." I mean, when compared
to other living things.
"As I cited when we were discussing your
assumption that 'all of this is for you:' you see what you want to see of
yourself. It stems from an innate sense of inferiority, Harold. Deep down you
are in closer touch with the real you, and it is less than you wish it to be.
You suffer a sense of insecurity as well. You feel the need for purpose; you
feel the need to see a positive future for yourselves. Without satisfaction in
these areas, you perceive difficulty in going on with your lives."
"Well, with all that going against us,
God, how could you consider us 'precious'?"
"Another assumption, Harold. But don't be
so hard on yourself. In many ways, you are growing up. Like a child in a
playroom, there will come a day when you will know how to take care of your
things."
We chatted about that one for what seemed like
a long time. Probably seemed a lot longer to my poor buddy, God. I guess he let
me go on because he knew how much I was feeling the moment. He's nice that way,
even if he was sticking to his guns about not giving me what I wanted, not
giving me the real skinny, I mean.
When I woke up that night, I spent the rest of
the time until morning thinking about where that put me. I did a lot of talking
and God did a lot of listening, but what really came out of it? I think he
agrees with me about thinking things through and the harm it does when people
don't do that. Harm not only in religion but in politics too--sometimes it's
hard to tell the two apart. And I think he was less concerned with what the
funny-eyes guys were saying than with how many of us were swallowing it.
"The onus is on you to not be afraid to
judge each of them on his or her merits ... spend more time in thinking and
less in believing."
He also said that believing doesn't have
anything to do with truth, although I gotta admit he also said truth wasn't the
point, that it was only relative at best. More important was what we do with
what we think is truth.
At any rate, he doesn't intend to intervene
with the funny-eyes guys. He doesn't intend to change what they are or zap
their tails to keep them in line. He doesn't intend to intervene with us
either. I got the impression he thinks our beliefs are too fickle. Not well
founded, not well supported and they change from minute to minute.
"Faith in weakly supported ideas has
little value, Harold ... if you let yourself decide things on faith rather than
fact, where do you draw the line?"
"That last part was you, Harold, not
I."
"Yeah? Sorry, God. I guess I'm already
starting to modify that 'truth' I keep searching for."
(sigh) "I am not surprised, Harold."
"You know, I would've said it's you
bringing it out of me, but I didn't get much agreement on the
guide-me-through-life thing."
"I left that for you to think through,
Harold."
"Yeah, that came through loud and clear,
God. Anyway, I don't feel like I'm being guided--don't get me wrong; that's not
bad; I kinda like the idea of being responsible for myself. That way I can let
myself feel good about what I make of it, rather than giving away credit for
the good while taking all the blame for the bad."
"I like that, Harold. As I say, you are
growing up."
"And you don't mind that, God? I mean,
you always refer to us as your children."
"Like all children, there comes a time
when one is required to assume adult responsibilities. Children become tedious
in direct proportion to how slow they are in doing so."
That one really got his eyes to glowing. Not
the thing about calling the children tedious--he's mostly looking at me when he
says things like "tedious." I meant our taking more responsibility
for our own lives.
"...or suffer [our] lack of
courage."
"I got that quote right, God."
"Yes, you did, Harold. I am
impressed."
"Guess I'm already on the path to
learning like you said I should be. I mean, I can feel the wisdom swelling
inside me, just itching to get out."
(sigh)
I think he likes my idea about jazzing up
heaven a bit, although I suppose that could be wishful thinking on my part. I
mean, I was hoping he'd give me the job, me having all these good ideas and
all. Of course I'd have to die first, which I'm not sure I want to do.
In talking about personal responsibility,
which I gather is a biggie with him, he included not only us poor guys who have
to suffer what the funny-eyes guys come up with, but the funny-eyes guys
themselves.
"One who professes to have the 'true'
knowledge has an obligation to fully and fairly consider opposing
opinion."
Among other things, he's saying be honest with
yourself. Sounds easy but in practice it's not. Anyway, his saying it gives me
hope about what might be waiting for those who are screwing up his world.
"That person is wrong who acts against
his conscience, who does what in his heart he knows is less than
credible."
"More of the vengeance thing,
Harold?"
"Well, maybe a little, God. I mean, it
makes me feel good, and feeling good is what paradise is all about,
right?"
(sigh)
If I ever get to be one of God's supervisors,
I'm going to ask for the job of greeting these guys when they get to heaven
(recognizing the big guy's cautions about vengeance, I will, of course, be
gracious and fair). In the meantime, I gotta hope none of them get more power
on Earth than is good for the rest of us.
"Untethered, religious leaders
methodically tighten the restraints which bind their flock, often to the point
where 'restraint' becomes 'sacrifice.'"
When old Ben Franklin went to England to
represent the colonies, he was surprised to find people singing on the Sabbath,
something that was not permitted in many parts of his own country. Yet nothing
bad was happening to these people, the English people, I mean. Ben said of it,
"I am beginning to suspect that the deity is not nearly as angry at the
offense of breaking the Sabbath as your average New England magistrate."
Apparently, there were a lot of funny-eyes guys around then too.
I guess I'm happier now. At least I'm happy I
got God to listen to me, even if it was only in my dreams rather than a few
beers in my living room--I must admit, I'd believe it more if it was the other
way around. Now, I don't want to give the wrong impression. I mean, that I got
more misery than the next guy. It's just that I got a life-long hot-button
about having to swallow the nonsense of the majority just to keep the peace.
And I don't like the idea of my grandchildren or great-grandchildren having to
do this either--praying in school might seem like a simple thing to the
majority, but it wasn't to me, and it isn't to those poor kids like me who will
have to go along or single themselves out. You force a kid to make that kind of
choice and you got a sour kid in the making.
In truth, I got a good thing going. I mean,
I'm happier than most people I know, and probably happier than most of the
people I don't know. I got more stuff to be happy with, like love, friends,
money, that kind of thing. What I think God is saying is that's gotta be
enough, at least for now. The answers are gonna come, but they're not gonna
arrive overnight.
I still have trouble understanding why this
has to be, though. I think it'd be a whole lot better world for everybody if
there were more answers now. One answer every thousand years gets a guy a
little impatient.
What will those answers be when they finally
get here? My take on what the big guy said is, this will depend on us. Not how
much we follow what the funny-eyes guys say, but how much we are willing to
take hold of our lives and continue the long march toward civilization--the
answers will come in proportion to how fast we as a species grow up.
I buy that, although it disappoints me some. I
like to be independent, but I sorta like the idea of having somebody else to
draw on if I get into trouble or have a bad day. That may be a little of my
childhood hanging on, but it's hard to ignore.
My biggest regret is that I didn't even come
close to an answer for what is truth. I mean, truth about why we're here and
what we should believe. All I got was a suggestion that I shouldn't place so
much stock in it, that nobody else has it either, that the kind of people we
are now, we wouldn't know what to do with it if we had it.
"... no single religion commands a
majority of the world's population [but] even if one did, and even if that
voice represented ninety-nine point nine percent of the entire human race, it
would not make them right."
Maybe what he was trying to tell me was that
the god we seek is within ourselves, whatever we make of that. And maybe this
is the best we're going to get. Yeah, I know, a lot of "maybe."
Anyway, I think what counts is how much you try to fool both yourself and the
big guy. Fooling yourself is pretty hard; you know what you're thinking down
deep inside no matter what kind of effort you make to keep it from coming out.
And with regard to trying to fool the big guy, it could be you only get so many
"sighs" in life.
If someday we get visitors from the stars,
they'll probably accelerate our thinking about a lot of things, including
religion. The only problem with that is, in what direction? Hopefully, they'll
have more of the answers that mankind needs to settle itself down and become
the "civilized" that God was talking about. If we're less lucky than
that, these visitors will bring along their own set of beliefs which they'll
feel compelled to muscle into our thinking--celestial funny-eyes guys, just
what the world needs.
God, I hope that last part doesn't turn out to
be true. Even the ten thousand religions we got now are more than we need--although
I gathered from what God said about letting one religion gain too much power,
that the alternative, facing only one, could be worse.
I guess I could take the approach one of the
founders of our country took, the guy I quoted earlier, Ben Franklin. He said
in one of his letters that he had doubts, including doubting whether Christ was
anything but a man, but that since he was already well up in his eighties, he
thought it "needless to busy myself with it now, when I expect soon an
opportunity of knowing the truth with less trouble." If waiting wasn't
such a big deal to him, maybe it shouldn't be such a big deal to me. Of course,
I'm a lot younger than old Ben.
I'm still going to question everything,
though. I mean, why not? Like I said, I can't hide the doubts from myself, and
I can't hide them from the big guy. Anyway, he'd think less of me if I went
back to nodding with the rest of the crowd whenever someone comes up with
something that makes me want to barf. He'd say, "think it through, Harold,"
something like that.
He must've had the same talk with old Ben
Franklin because Ben had something to say on that too: "I do not perceive
that the Supreme takes it amiss, by distinguishing the unbelievers in his
government of the world with any peculiar marks of his displeasure." (Ben
sounds just like me.)
Anyway, God as much as said he's going to sit
back and watch. Oh I gotta believe he'll hope for the best, but whatever I get,
good or bad, I gotta make it happen myself. So I'll just go about my business
and try to ignore the guys that are so noisy about going about theirs. I think
in time God will buy my idea about zapping their butts to keep the damage they
do to a minimum. I mean, it's a good use for lightning bolts. Better that than
aiming them at houses and cars and people who got misery enough.
But I think it's his supervisors who do that.
AUTHOR'S NOTE:
Tapping into another of Benjamin Franklin
writings, "I have ever let others enjoy their religious sentiments without
reflecting on them for those that appeared to me insupportable or even absurd
... and as I have never opposed any of their doctrines, I hope to go out of the
world in peace with them all."
The overwhelming diversity of religious
opinion should instill in each of us a sense of tolerance, understanding and,
most of all, humility in what we so fervently profess to others. Whoever we
are, whatever we believe and however strongly we hold these beliefs, we stand
no better chance of being correct than our neighbor.
(Except for Harold, of course.)
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© 2002 by Noel Carroll
The husband-and-wife
team, Noel and Carol (using the surname, "Carroll") have produced
novels and short stories in three genres: thrillers, science fiction and
humor/satire. There is similarity between them, with all emphasizing story
ahead of the sensational. Sensationalism also takes a back seat to
plausibility, to reasonableness, to validity and purpose of character and to
avoidance of the commonplace and the expected. The effect is to produce tales
that seduce and engage readers of all genres.
Noel, prior to taking
up writing full time, served as a corporate CEO. Carol was an executive in a private corporate. Their published works include novels, short
stories and satiric essays.
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